could somebody make a new page for "catgender"? i'm not very good at making pages so i would really appreciate it if someone could!(=´∇`=)
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My dad/parents say pansexuals, abrosexuals, anything other than lesbian gay bi or straight is trying to be special.(my mom said she's ok with bigender in febuary, don't know if she thinks the same) Same with genders, you can only be transgender or cis. Not non-binary or genderfluid. I wish I could believe them but what I feel inside is genderfluid, specifically genderfaunet. Should I just say I'm bigender or trans when coming out in a few years? I'm too scared to come out right now anyways
Qutfitgender (Can be changed later on if needed) is a gender where your clothes is what you identify as, you can wear feminine clothing and feel as if you are a boy or other! Same goes for any other clothing and gender! I believe this fits under the genderfluid umbrella if there is one! What do you think of this gender?
So how do I say this to my parents (just my mom)
So me and my brother are trans (under the trans umbrella)
Both of us are amab, ma*** is demigirl am I am genderflux we use she/they and they/xem. + we have only came out to our dad.
Im possibly thinking about HRT (maybe, but I might not)
So how do we say this to our mom - fe**/m***. ma***.
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Im censoring our names for privacy stuff
I want to come out to my parents ,mostly coz i want to start hormone therapy, but i have no clue how to. My parents are pretty supportive (my mother at least) so I'm not really worried about them not supporting me. I just feel super embarrassed about it coz I know it'll be awkward as fuck. I just dread the awkward questions and my dad's comments. And I don't even know how to do it like over text I guess??? But my parents will definitely make it a big deal and probably will make me announce it during a family meeting and shit :,). I just want to avoid that as best as possible. 👍👍👍👍
So im fairly sure im agender but like I might be a transboy or something else.
Like I feel like i dont have a huge strong connection to any gender but being a woman/man feels so wrong but so right at once?? like it feels like I'm simotaniously every gender ever (Like pangender) and genderless (Like agender) but like I also kinda feel like I might be a GNC transboy???
Hi! i have a friend who is questioning between trans and genderfluid. Can't they be genderfluid and trans? i guess this could really help her!
People describe gender as a feeling but, i just can’t grasp what that feeling is. I keep trying to find an emotion feeling that is like/similar to happiness, anger, sadness, but i just don’t know exactly what I am looking for and there is absolutely no straight answer I can get at all to what gender feels like. I don’t know how femininity is “supposed” to feel like, I don’t know how masculinity is “supposed” to feel like, and I don’t know how other is “supposed” to feel like. No i’m not agender necessarily (maybe). I’m comfortable with my sex, im comfortable with my pronouns given so I have no clue on why the fuck i’m trying to figure such a thing out. Maybe it’s seeing so much about it? My friends talking about their gender and what not? I don’t know and I don’t know why I am even trying
I haven't talked to any of my friends about this. My gender has recently been confusing me. I'm AFAB but for the past years I've been calling myself a boy (but have always been kind of both feminine and masculine in gender expression) and all my friends have been too, using pronouns like he/him (I also use xe/xem.) But for some reason, out of nowhere, I feel like a girl too? Yet, I still feel comfortable identifying as a man, which is confusing for me. Sometimes I feel okay with the sex characteristics but other times I hate them. Whenever I research bigender or genderfluid labels I feel like they don't really appeal to me as much? If able to please help.
I’ve been struggling to find a label and was looking for help. Here’s some details about my past and present life that has lead me to questioning. When I was real young (2-5) I liked dresses but then stopped liking them around 5 and stopped wanting my outfits to be associated with feminism. I called myself a tomboy and engaged in activities that are normally done by males (nerf wars, hockey etc.) but also liked activities that are typically done been girls like drawing butterflies and I had a liking for necklaces and bracelets. When I hit puberty my chest immediately started to give me dysphoria and I begged my parents to get me hoodies and I now force myself to wear baggy hoodies in f90+ degrees… I dislike being called a girl but I’m sorta fine with she/her pronouns but prefer they/them. The main problem bothering me is I called myself a girl and never questioned it when I was younger. I attended a “girl power after school activity” but felt a lot of disconnect from the girls around me. I’ve just never questioned my gender till puberty. I also grew up not knowing any genders besides male and female so that my contribute to that.
Wow. I open my mouth and an essay falls out lmao.
So, I'm not really sure what my gender is, I think I'm agingender or something like that? I was trying librafem, but it doesn't really fit so I'm just leaving myself at agingender for now.
Despite being agenderish though, I kinda want to try some androgynous sounding neopronouns, if that makes sense? Like ne/nim/nir kinda?
Any suggestions?
Definition of boybondgender: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more male/masculine the more they are attached to their gender.
Boybondgender flag:
Definition of girlbondgender: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more female/feminine the more they are attached to their gender.
Girlbondgender flag:
Enbybondgender definition: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more non-binary/gender neutral the more they are attached to their gender.
Enbybondgender flag:
I actually dont want to make an essay about this so...
My parents thinks that the concept of genders is stupid and they say the "only" genders are male and female. I really disagree with this statement just fyi. And dont retaliate at me for what my parents say.
Hi, I've just made both, Gendersilen and Gendersilkie. Everything is fine I think, however I don't know how to do the references properly, specifically with referencing accounts and external sites. And the actual mechanism of referencing. If anybody could help with this, that would be great, thank you.
I would like to coin the gender that I call bondgender! Basically, its definition is that bondgender individuals are people who's gender increases in intensity the more they are attached or connected to it. This gender identity is a spectrum of identities that fall under the bondgender umbrella, such as boybondgender, girlbondgender, and enbybondgender (these will get their own definitions and flags sometime soon).
This is the bondgender flag:
So i've been questioning my gender for a while. I am AFAB and i sometimes feel as if i was a girl or just feminine in general, and sometimes i feel as if i were agender. I dont feel comfortable identifying as a guy fully, though i do not mind he/him pronouns (im aware pronouns do not = gender ofc) but sometimes i dont even care about my gender, so im just very confused, because im not sure if im genderflux, librafemme, genderdoe, or maybe even demigirl, any and all help is very much appreciated!! Sorry if this didnt make sense.