Ever see the inside of a house lock?

Only the right key can push all of the pins into the right spot, and open the door.

Your friend is not the right key to fit in to this slot. She's not pushing the pins into the right places.

You don't need to feel bad about it. Some keys fit, and some don't. If your pins aren't getting pushed, it's not meant to be. You need to tell her this straight up, until she gets it. Even if, and worst case scenario here, you have to break the friendship apart (if things get too out of control).

She's the wrong key for your house, and that's okay. Every lock and key is designed a specific way, and that's okay. You shouldn't rearrange your pins to fit a key, a key needs to fit within the pins.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

Hey, i randomly came on this wiki and found this post. Please dont feel bad for being aroace. K is the one who doesn't respect you, its her problem, not yours.

A true friend or partner would support you and respect your boundaries. This person is doing neither. Do not change yourself for their sake <3

Dont let people force you into a realsonship where you dont like/love them it happend to me and i think i was aro at the time and i totally regreted what i did i acted cold to the person since i didnt like them like that. this seems like harrasing you should probaly tell a parent or an adult