I picked ADHD since you have it as a badge, but brother, this question made me uncomfortable as hell. I have overt ADHD and covert autism, so I should not see this. Not everything's overt! Neurodivergency and personality are so diverse that the only way you know someone is neurodivergent is by asking them, especially because those traits overlap sometimes. Let's not treat them as something trivial, you collected a lot of labels already.
I know your intentions, just be careful. If curiousity is a thirst, don't rely on random netizens to quench it. They can say anything.