Do you feel like your´re lying to yourself./q

Sort of? These aren't my labels but more like umbrella labels, like ***extremely*** simplified versions of how I really feel. IDK, it just makes me feel bad. I hate lying, and this makes me feel like I'm lying because it's not 100% me.

Specifics are important to many beings when it comes to identity do not dumb it down or simplified for others at the cost of your sense of self.

-Hanias/Shadow it/him

I actually think there's a label for that (presenting one way but identifying another way internally), but I can't currently remember the name of it. I think later (when I get off mobile lol) I can do a search :]

But really, it's up to you. Like Hanias said, it can cost some of your sense of self if you don't really know how you identify. But for me, I do something similar; I identify as genderxenolibrarian (+ a bunch of xenos I hoard), but I'll tell people I'm non-binary/maybe transmasc some days so I don't have to explain all that. So even if you don't want to go around telling everyone your exact identity, I'd recommend still finding, coining, or asking someone to coin terms you feel really comfortable with :] /pos /nf