Bigender

So it feels like Bigender, Polygender, Genderfluid, basiacly like any Multigender. The thing i dont understand, is that it feels like parts of my head has its own gender. like, Me, I, myself am a girl, but other part of me feels like a boy, or any other gender (another one is demi girl/boy). And sometimes those genders kinda "shift" into my own gender. I feel like a girl, and then other part of my (other genders, ig) feels like its "molding into me" and then i feel as if im bigender. but the other gender dosent really feel mine? and then i get super confused cuz i have no idea what my gender actually is at times. ik it probably sounds so stupid and makes no sense, but if somebody knows an identidy that kind of means this, please tell me 😞

My friend is going through a gender identity crisis and needs help.

So here is her problem:

She is a cis female rn but doesn’t feel very “girly” if you will. She said she had a daydream about being called he and liked it. But also likes They them pronouns. We were looked into PanGender, BiGender, InterGender, GenderQueer, AmbiGender, GenderFluid, GenderFear, GenderFea, PollyGender, PlurGender, and MultiGender. Any more we should try and look into?

I made a fictional country named Autini, and its personification or countryhuman version is versatile to say the least. This includes Autini's human name, outfit, relationships, ideologies, and an aspect relevant to this wiki: gender.

When I first made Autini on May 5th, 2022, Autini was a blank genderless paper, but they slowly shifted to male as I developed the character. His monogender status was kept for a year. (meaning: one gender)

A few months after 2023 began. his female side started to appear while his male identity was still there. He became bigender.

When 2023 was about to end, Autini went back to male, but exactly a year later, they became bigender.

In the present, his mid-2025 version, Autini is a transmasculine person who identifies as a boy and a girl before he becomes a man in adulthood. No womanhood from now on.

In a nutshell, Autini is mostly a man who becomes androgyne sometimes. In other words, his femaleness may fade at times, but his maleness remains. I can call him a girlflux man, but I'd also like to learn about synonyms. What genderfluid subset is my character?

So can you be like some form of genderfluid/flux and multigender(bi/pan gender etc) like at the same time

I swear that "dualgender" or at least something along that lines is also used as an alternate name for bigender, but the only source I can find is another wiki. I've also seen bigender used as "experiencing two or more genders", and not necessarily exactly two genders, like with bi- orientations.

Alrighty so uhh haha terrifying secret I barely share online: I'm AFAB (terrifying ikr /j). A few years ago I decided to go by the main label of Nonbinary and over time I've tried searching for secondary labels to fill the void that "Nonbinary" doesn't always do.

The most accurate secondary identity I've gone by was probably Genderfluid. My gender switches around a lot and 50% of the time I can't even tell what I'm feeling like. The label of genderfluid has been great for me for a while until recently.

I've started to realize that I feel most confident and comfortable when my fluidity shifts to feeling masculine. Feeling masc has become my favorite gender feeling over time. The only problem is that I don't always feel like a guy and when I don't I tend to get a bit dysphoric.

I'm a bit confused on whether I want to stick with the label of genderfluid or not because even though it's technically accurate I tend to heavily prefer feeling masculine or neutral over feminine.

I still like being feminine, don't get me wrong, but it's more of a guilty pleasure and if I feel it too often the magic of it starts to fade and it becomes a burden.

I've been slightly considering the umbrella term of transmasc but I'm not completely sure. I don't always feel like a guy and I very rarely feel 100% male. Plus since I have a rather androgynous appearance I rarely get dysphoric about my body and I don't think I'd want to transition. I also don't really have anything against being called feminine terms (though I prefer neutral or masc ones and want to change my name) and in general I'm pretty comfortable with my femininity and wouldn't want to lose it.

I don't know it's all so confusing and I'm most likely overthinking it. I'm pretty sure I'll just stick to Nonbinary but I'd like some advice from others too.

I am Millie. I go by she/they pronouns and in case this is necessary; I am pansexual. I am bigender. I would love to hear all about y'all.

TW: Transphobia and Homophobia

So I have these two friends. Let's call them K and T. We are best friends and have the same interests. I have discovered recently that they are to some degree homophobic and transphobic, not all the way, but I've seen the hints, and I feel a bit upset when they bring it up. I think they're really funny and cool, but I can't help but feel that they won't accept me if they hear about how I'm pansexual or bigender, or how I want to change my name to Millie. I need advice on what to do. Anything is helpful! <3

On Chromebook so hard to take pics but it's up!

What would be the best way to come out to my parents and friends? Most of my best friends are not the biggest fans of other genders other than boy and girl, and the rest are unknown except a few, my mom is supportive but no idea about dad, as I have told my mother about my gender identity multiple times, only for us both to forget, and I'm really nervous about coming out as bigender and pansexual, and my mom knows I want to change my name to Millie, we just haven't talked about it a lot, so I would like some tips for coming out, the questioning/help section is useful, but I'd like some more simple advice. Thx!

I'm bigender, amab cis woman and girl, and also maybe a few xenos / neuros

I’ve found my gender i’m Errgender(more specifically Errgenderfae/Errgenderfaefluid)and I’m femine even though I might as well be cassfemine. I like being Cisgender but I also don’t find satisfactory,like I kinda feel Dysphoria with it. I want to be Intersex but obvious I don’t know if I’m,unless I get checked out(I have female parts I don’t know of my chromosomes though.)I go by Genderfae cause I like being female it makes me uncomfortable but not?? So I then can transition/be fluid whenever. I’m mostly agender or gendervoid(I mostly use Agender)from the day I was born I never paid any mind to gender or felt like I was in the wrong body, in 2022 though, I started to question my gender at first I thought I was Trans cause I wanted male parts but I also didn’t want to change my female parts,so I gussed I was Intersex and I feel I am still but for now I present Intergender , Though I feel there’s this empty hole for my gender that I’m still searching and I keep pilling my gender up as more complicated. it’s getting outta hand I feel. I like looking at genders,I do but I feel it’s getting outta hand.

I also use to be Genderspike like I feel a spike in my masculinity. I go by Bigender to make it easier for me to explain and for others. I thought I use to be Demitrans but I think I just have a scale yknow,Transmasculine can be higher and is mostly while Transfeminine is very low or a tad lower than Transmasculine.(so Transmascfem)their spikes as well but I feel there combined it’s hard to explain if I feel any gender there usually all of the genders😭

Does anyone know how to help?(I’m also kinda stuck between my male and Gendervoid identity so if you know a identity please do tell)

(I use to have 100 genders but I summed it up to Errgender,Genderfae,Bigender(Transmasculine and Transfeminine)Agender/Gendervoid) (I also use to mirror gender😅so maybe I’m just like a sponge soaking up genders(I kinda hate it cause I keep finding good ones but I don’t need them all Ahah)

They/them

This is my second coining so here:

Unnugender:

Bigender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

Piengender:

Pangender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

Poliengender:

Polygender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

Omthropagender/Omngender/Onmigender:

Omnigender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

Triosegender/Rosetrigender/Trosiegender/Trirosegender/Trirosiegender:

Trigender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

Bisenmualgender:

Multigender + Demigender/Quartergender/Dodransgender

That was it! If any of those are already something, tell me. I could erase it!

How do you pronounce xe/xem/xyr/ and ze/zem/zir neopronouns?

The bineugender flag has 6 horizontal stripes. The pink stripes represents being a girl, the teal stripe represents being a boy, the lighter yellow represents being bigender, the orange represents being neutral, the blue represents being multigender, and the darker yellow represents being non-binary.

I was looking at the label girlboyflux which i like, but when i go to girlboy, the page name has been switched to Male-Female, which makes me uncomfortable.

I'm genderfluid + genderqueer so i'm constantly looking at new labels that describe how my gender feels in the moment.

Right now im settling with Trigender (Girlboyflux + Pastelpinkgender + Pastelbluegender) Ordered by significance.

Are/is there a gender where you feel both feminine and masculine ( more fem than masc, or masc in a fem way ) ((mostly the first one)) //without// using the term/label male/female?

Feminine, Masculine, Boy, Girl would ideally be the terms im looking for

I know i could just use bigender since its just 2 genders combined but it doesnt really feel that way. My masculinity is intertwined with the femininity.

Sorry is this was confusing, if anything comes to mind, please tell me :)

Aaron { shi/blu }

I am born female and have been going by she/her but lately I started going by they/them also and someone was using male pronouns for me and it made me so happy. so I like being called by all pronouns and I'm confused. I don't know what gender I am. sometimes I hate my body and others I am fine with it. I cut my hair recently pretty short and I feel so much more like me. I don't like dressing feminine most of the time but occasionally I do. Um that is my struggle with my gender but I'm also struggling with my sexuality. I think I'm aromantic but maybe I'm aroace? I have been identifying as a lesbian but I don't feel like it fits. I like women and I don't think I like men. The only men I have ever been attracted to are fictional and even then it felt more like I wanted to be them or be their friend. I can't really see myself in a relationship with a man. a friend of mine suggested that I might be bigender or genderfluid but he doesn't know and I'm confused. could you please give me some advice I'm willing to answer any questions to help you understand better and help me.

Does anyone consider "bigender" to mean two or more (I'm asking because of bi- orientations, and because the bigender page says "exactly two gender identities")?