Bigender

So I was looking for labels to my gender, and I couldn't find one that exactly fit. I keep trying to find a name for it, but I'm having difficulties finding a name that encapsulates it, isn't too long, and isn't already taken.

It's basically being bigender, but one of the genders is static and the other one fluctuates in intensity.

It's likely that this label has already been claimed, but I can't seem to find it anywhere. If anyone has a label for this or any name suggestions, I would appreciate it.

So I'm Bigender but I'm a bit confused about a quick thing. Can you feel more like one gender than the other? Or am I being dumb

Hi! I am having a bit of a gender crisis. I have identified myself as a girl my whole life but now i'm not quite sure. I like to use they them pronouns but I like getting called pretty or handsome, and I like wearing both masculine and feminine clothes. I'd like to get some help and opinions please.. anything would help thank you!

could i be an azurgirl and bigender?

or is it strictly one or the other??

i'm AFAB and recently i thought i was a demiboy- but now that i think of it i actually don't mind being seen as a female sometimes..? depending on the person, i don't mind if they saw me as a female, or saw me as a male. if i'm a girl to you then i'm a girl! and vice versa! i RARELY ever feel agender/nonbinary, but regardless of gender i always present more masculine and not feminine. so i guess my question is can i still be a demiboy if i feel only partially female at times? or am i something else? because if a person asked me if i were a boy i would say "no, not entirely!" and same if they were to ask if i were female! my pronouns are it/she if it helps! that's the only feminine thing i think i like presenting, in my pronouns.

thank you if your read and respond! <3

Ok, so um hi this is my first time writing one of these so uh yeah. Not to mention but I don't know much about the LGBT+ community but my question is this.

Lately, I've been identifying as demigirl, but sometimes I feel like I want to be a guy, or I feel that I am one. But I also will feel like my assigned gender (a girl) and then I'll rarely feel nonbinary. What would this mean? Sorry if this is a stupid question, I have no one else to go to. Thank you in advance :D

so i think i might be bigender, i use both she/her and they/them pronouns. i've been presenting (is that the right word?) as demigirl for a while but i think bigender might fit better. i'm afab and i like my body, i don't have dysphoria or anything, but i think my feelings of being nonbinary are stronger than just being partly enby. i'm not entirely clear on the definition of bigender vs demigirl/demigender.

i also am slightly confused on the flag controversy. is there one bigender flag i should be using vs another? thank you very much if you have an answer to my question(s).

Like I "float" ( or idk ) sometimes to 70% boy and 30% girl, (or both, or 70% girl and 30% boy) sometimes 99% agender and 1% girl, sometimes 100% agender. sometimes 20% girl and 80% agender.

But almost most of the time I'm agender

Can someone’s gender be female & androgyne?

Okay so! I've been feeling so confused for the longest time and I need someone else's input on this.

I like she/he pronouns. I love masculine compliments. I'm fine with being called a man, woman, etc. But the thing is: I never get gender dysphoria. I feel like a woman, but I also feel like there's more masculine elements to my gender. I don't care if I'm perceived as a man or woman.

I don't know if it's:

• Juxera

• Androgyne

• Genderflux

Or something else entirely. Please help!

So, i was born as a normal girl but i dobt feel fully ,,girlish". Dont say im demigirl, i also feel kinda ,,boyish". i feel like im bigender bit not sure,i was wondering if there is a gender that defines me better

Okay.. so for gender? I feel comfortable being a girl but at the same time I want to be a boy. I use He/They pronouns bc im not comfortable using she/her, but at the same time I'm okay with being a girl? For now I'm identifying as bigender but I just want to make sure.

As for sexuality, I like all genders, but I'm not a big fan of boys. So I think I'm omni? I already figured out I'm asexual, so can someone help me find out if I'm omni and that if I'm really bigender?..

I'm genderfluid and bigender(he/him, she/her), and I've only ever been referred to as she/her (I'm AFAB), and while I know this is probably partly because I'm not really completely out-ish, (I am with my sexual orientation(pan), but I haven't really come out and said I'm genderfluid/bigender to anyone, just been sort of obvious about it), I think it's also sort of my gender expression. For instance sometimes I'll feel like a guy in girl intended clothes, and so while I know I'm currently male, the rest of the world is probably thinking I'm a girl or something. I have short hair, but not short-short, it falls down just barely touching the tops of my shoulders, but I'm not sure I'll cut it much shorter. Does anyone have any tips on how to express more masculine. At least enough for people to stare at me and have no idea on what my gender is. Also, I don't usually wear pants, and often wear tank tops, vests, and sweaters.

I was born female but I feel more masculine than anything else. But recently I've been feeling more of a mix between being male and non-binary (preferably using It/It's and He/Him).

I decided to look at multiple articles like Bigender and Polygender. When I was looking at the Polygender article, it seemed pretty fitting! But I have a question, is there a gender label for someone who jumps back and forth from being completely gendered to being non-binary?

I had been thinking about identifying as genderfluid but never using female (I feel 0% afab) but then thought about Bigender but knew it was mostly between male and female only, so I felt hopeless.

Please help, SOS T-T''

PS. Sorry about my sucky grammar.

So the only other place I can think to put this would be reddit but like yeah anyway so here we go.

Haircuts? Yes I am asking a bunch of gay internet strangers for haircut ideas but here I am. so I am wandering along the gender path where I creep from one side of the gender binary to the other. I started my gender exploration thingy in about February when one of my friends came out as a demiboy and I didn't know what it meant so I googled it. I also found the definition for demigirl and thought 'cool' and continued with my day. Next week I had a gender crisis and decided I was a demigirl. About a month later I decided I was non-binary and here I am, June, thinking I might be a trans dude/demiboy. Anyway, to fit my shifting identity I want a new haircut. Back in November I donated 15 inches of hair to children with hair loss (I'm not joking that's legit the name of the organization) and I've never felt free-er(?) with my gender expression/identity. I'm AFAB so I've always felt that I had to fit into one box: girl. And I'm thinking some subconscious part of me knew I wasn't a girl and basically just imagine my entire life of gender expression being that stage of TRANSing when your just expressing your self as hyper-femme (or hyper-masc) to like "woman the man out of you" (or vise-versa) or whatever. That has been my entire life up to this point and I'm not joking. I wore skirts/dresses every day, I hated the color pink but otherwise was more "girl" than anyone else I knew. Anyway I had really long hair and decided that I didn't need this hair, but some other girl might really need it. So I sliced off all of my hair and donated it. the hair that I had been growing since I was about 7 was gone. And I didn't feel sad, I felt really happy actually. My aunt cut my hair for me as she is a hair dresser and I told her that I wanted a pixie cut. She gave me a Karen cut with the phrase "if you don't like it, this is easier to grow out" and I liked the Karen cut for about a week before I went to a different stylist with no family ties to fix it. For context on my aunt, she is really really catholic and I have theories that she guessed I was trans and did all she could to "stop me" some how. Anyway I had my average girl pixie cut of my dreams, and then, I needed it to be trimmed. I was in track and my hair was too short to tie back but so long it got in my way when I was running and jumping and stuff. so I cut it to about 1.5 inches and had it all gelled to my right side (except my undercut, obviously) and now I want to grow it out to a different short hairstyle, but I'm not sure what I want to do. I want to have a haircut that makes me look more masculine but I'm not entirely sure how to do that besides walking into a barber shop and saying "hi my names River I'm trans make me look like an 8 year old boy please" but I'm not entirely sure how good of an idea that is especially because I don't have any ideas so the barber would have to have previous experience making AFAB people look masc. So I thought it would be a good idea to ask gay strangers on the internet so here I am. Anyway, hair stuff

I'm 14

I have dark brown hair

I'm white

Straight hair (unlike me :P)

I don't have glasses

I'm really active so I need something either:

A: long enough to tie back

B: short enough its not in my way

Or C: is already pointing backwards so it just gets more styled when I'm running

I'm fairly sure I've got an oval shaped face

And I'm AFAB so I want something masculinizing

Thanks!!!! Any and all ideas are good ideas and I'm open to trying basically anything as I've had 4 hair styles since October.

-River they/them (maybe he/they I don't actually know :P)

I know this is kinda long but I wanna add full context. This might be confusing but it's just as confusing to me so any help or advice is appreciated!

I’m afab, use she/they pronouns

For the past month I’ve been questioning my gender. I have questioned my gender in the past but it never lasted longer than like a day tops. It was usually due to the lack of sleep, and I feel like it could be now as my sleeping pattern is currently not great.

I am, and mostly have always been, ok with using female terms, looking feminine and having femenine features, and identifying as female but for some reason I just don’t want to be cis. I have experimented with ftm, non binary, and somewhat with genderfae and demigirl. None of these terms seem to fit and I ended up not liking he/him pronouns or masc things/identifying masc for the most part. I have experimented with non binary more than others as it seems that what my mind keeps throwing at me but every time I try labeling myself as non binary I get hit with thoughts such as

“You’re cis stop lying to yourself/gaslighting yourself”

“This doesn’t fit at all”

“You’re cis”

The thing is these thoughts often worsen by getting sleep, but I don't think that questioning my gender is 100% caused by lack of sleep because it's still mostly a problem when I'm not tired. I am aware that this just might be impostor syndrome but it gets too overwhelming and I just go back to cis/questioning. I have looked into terms like demigirl, demigirlflux, bigender, girlflux, genderfae, paragirl, and genderfluid but none of those seem to fit either. This whole crisis started after I changed my sexuality (pan/ace to omni/ace) because I really hated the discourse around pan, and omni was just a better label for me in general. I know I may just end up being cis in the end but this is really confusing and need someone's outsider perspective/advice.

Whats my gender identity if im only partly a girl and the other half is fluid?

Im new here and you can call me pixi !!(they/them/she/her).

So i identify as non-binary but also as a

female, well sometimes im just non-binary (it goes back and forth) but most the time both (if that makes sense), would that make me bigender, or something else ?

Thanks for helping me out !!

Hi so you might recognize me as that person who occasionally types really long drawn out posts about how confusing my gender is, and now I have made several of them, slowly crawling from one side of the binary to the other. But now, I'm sitting here wondering if I'm even part of the binary at all. So I've been thinking here for a while thinking about how damaging the binary is to society as one does, and I was suddenly wondering if I just hate the binary (see previous sentence) or if I'm quite literally agender, and not a gender in out or near the gender binary. Just, no gender at all. I mean, when I was young when my only worry was if my favorite color was a "boy" or "girl" color (remember when life was that simple?) I couldn't grasp why girls could like blue (the main "boy" color) but boys couldn't like pink ( the main "girl" color). Again, I didn't understand why boys could play these sports and act like this but girls can't. I couldn't understand why girls could wear this and boys couldn't etc. But at the same time, I was quite the hypocrite. I wore dresses daily and while I didn't like pink I liked purple and really played into those stereotypes. Anyway as a person who wears a binder almost every day (safely of course) and uses they/them pronouns and currently identifies as non-binary I wanted to know if there where any agender/similarly identifying people who felt similarly. Anyway, I don't really feel very... I don't know, connected... to the boy/girl gender stuff. That's mostly why I use non-binary as a label, because that's exactly what it is. Not a boy or a girl. But I feel like non-binary, quite .literally shorthand for not part of the binary, I almost feel like that's not really right either. Like the fact that it's called non-binary just feels like its still saying that there is a binary, and I just don't feel any connection the binary whatsoever. I might sound really stupid, being like "oh yeah I'm not part of the binary but I'm not non-binary because it means not part of the binary therefore I am agender" but like I'm just wondering if that makes sense to anyone? I know words like gender queer and libra gender and stuff exist, I just... head empty, no thoughts, only no gender. you know?

-River, They/Them