First, I am Pikounet, I use she/her but I am okay with they/them and I support every gender identities 😄
I am demifluxgirl (-agender) but sometimes I feel 100% girl so am I genderfae ? (I'm AFAB, idk if it matter in this)
First, I am Pikounet, I use she/her but I am okay with they/them and I support every gender identities 😄
I am demifluxgirl (-agender) but sometimes I feel 100% girl so am I genderfae ? (I'm AFAB, idk if it matter in this)
https://myclubpenguin.fandom.com/wiki/File:CisgenderFlag.png
https://myclubpenguin.fandom.com/wiki/File:CisgenderFemaleFlag.png
https://myclubpenguin.fandom.com/wiki/File:CisgenderMaleFlag.png
https://myclubpenguin.fandom.com/wiki/File:FemaleFlag.png
https://myclubpenguin.fandom.com/wiki/File:MaleFlag.png
(please archive these pages too)
They were made on the same day that I uploaded them (they are meant for allies though, and not for bad people)
I think the stripes on the first one represent male and female and varying levels of masculinity and femininity (so for GNC cis people and for cis people that are less masculine/feminine)
The second one is similar, and also has a stripe for cisgender females
The third is also similar to the second, but for cisgender males
The fourth one includes non-binary people who are female in some way and trans males
The last one includes non-binary people who are male in some way and trans males
Yeaa
headcannon:Names,Gender(Cisgender/binary identity please),Clothing astheic,disability’s,hobbies,romantic/sexual(please give polygamy orientation)orientation,personality. Anything is fine with me with your headcannons you come up with! (Pings: @Fireflyforest @LittenGMD @TheRillowest @XxBagelxX (you can tell me if you don’t want to be pinged,and or if you want to be pinged)
Schoolfluid(also is homeschool)this gender is mostly based off where you mask a gender in a place you go to,or you don’t it’s totally up to the user.(maybe I should coin placefluid lol oh wait I already did placefluid is same as this coin!)where your gender is different from when your outta school,your gender in school can be a cis/binary gender like male or female or a non-binary gender one uses,this gender can be fluid flux or fluidflux!
Work fluid is same as schoolfluid(to be honest)it’s just that it’s now in a workplace!
(may update this flag periodically for the last 24 hours or not-)
Workfluid:(I tried making it kinda dual like a office job look)
with symbol👇
Should I make it more saturated or add a gender fluid color schem?
Also sorry if what you read may not make sense definitely comment what may be confusing you if your confused(I’m a lot and don’t do great grammer😅)
They/Them
I have been female since birth and I am happy with it. At the same time, I have a rather androgynous appearance, which is why some people may mistake me for a guy. And I am happy with that too. I prefer to addressing myself in a male person, simply because it is more convenient and I like the way it sounds. I don't care at all what sex or gender other people consider me to be. And I am happy with any pronouns applied to me. And although I still remain a girl by sex, I address myself in the masculine gender and am completely okay with others considering me whoever they want, a guy, a girl, or something else. What do you think would be a better label for me, for gender or whatever, so that I wouldn't have to explain it all to everyone and I could just say "I am this gender".
I used to identify as a demigirl (or maybe I still am idk), but I decided to go back to being a girl. I'm just so sick and tired of having to constantly explain my identity to people and being called "chronically online" for it. I'm sick of all of it. I wish I had never felt this way, I already get enough judgment for being a masculine lesbian, it's all too much for me to handle. Being a 'cis girl' just doesn't feel right, this is hard to explain but I don't mind being a girl at all but I don't feel like I'm 'cis' and tbh I don't feel trans either. I'm honestly just tired of all of this dude.
CW: Rambling, Anxiety/Panic Attack, Caps, Doctor Forms, Fear, Honesty Dilemma, LGBTQIA+ Issues, Mentions of Violence, Politics, Safety Concerns
For context as to what the image is, it's a doctor's form where I just fill it out and turn it back in so they can evaluate me for any mental illnesses. My mom was supposed to fill it out months ago, but she hasn't, so I convinced her to give it to me so I could fill it out.
When I started reading the first page, it triggered me and started a anxiety/panic attack. So this post is my rambling caused by this anxiety/panic attack, but I very much **do** need advice. So **please**, what should I do? /genq
OH CRAP! OH NO! Oh no. Oh no. Oh no. I looked at the packet that I have to fill out.
I'm having an anxiety attack.
WHAT DO I WRITE HERE? Should I be honest about who I am, or should I play it safe and pretend to be something I'm not, CisHet, to avoid trouble with my anti-LGBTQIA+ family? I don't know what to do! This is a doctor thing. The doctor needs this information. Not about my sexuality—that's personal and weird to discuss here; IDK why they need my sexuality if I'm not sexually active—but my gender, yes, they need to know that information. Should I write genderfluid, aego, and pan? Or should I go with cisgender female, heterosexual/romantic, and allosexual/romantic?
I'm so anxious right now.
Project 2025 is going to become a reality; I just know it. If people find out I'm queer, I could be in danger. I could be subjected to physical violence if people find out I'm queer after Project 2025 is in action.
What should I do? What should I do? What should I do?
I feel like I'm going to be sick.
Should I use this chance to come out to my family? Mom is still in the gray area; there is no evidence to see if she's pro- or anti-LGBTQIA+. Whereas my grandparents are in the definite anti-LGBTQIA+ area. My mom doesn't know how to keep her mouth shut, so she would MORE THAN DEFINITELY tell everyone she knows that I'm queer. I don't know what to do, and it's overwhelming me to the point of hyperventilating.
Just thinking about this makes me feel scared to my core! I don't know what to do! I'm having an anxiety attack and it's making it so I can't think straight or logically! I'm trembling and my hands are numb! I know I'm overthinking this. That's what anxiety is! But I can't just stop myself.
I'm having a panic attack because my anxiety attack is becoming too overwhelming.
— Rowan (he/they/vae)
Idk what’s wrong with me. I know that clothes don’t equal gender, but I desperately want to wear really girly clothes. But im a trans man. And for context, what I wear does play into how I feel about my gender.
Like hurhfuftdystdhxh!!! I want this:
This is so cute!!! I want to wear it so bad!!!
My gender is so confusing. Do I just want to be a pretty boy? Or am I cis? Feminine non-binary? I’m so confused.
I think I might be bisexual, but… am I tho…?
Non-binary, bisexual, and aroace? Maybe? I don't know. I feel very, very, 100% CisHet right now. Is this just the by-cycle? Where I think I'm straight, then I think I'm gay, then I think I'm bi, then I think I'm straight. I really can't tell.
I think I'm non-binary, but I feel very cis right now, so I can't possibly be non-binary.
I honestly don't know who I am anymore (I know I say that a lot, but I'm having a ton of mental issues right now, and my family is making it worse, which is causing me to have an identity crisis).
— Rowan/Jayden (he/him)
Okay, for a little context, after viewing some queerphobic media, I became completely, 100% CisHet for around 4 days now, but now I'm actually starting to question myself again, because I don't feel completely like a cisgender woman anymore.
I know more than anything that my life would be better if I were AMAB. I would have been so happy if I was born AMAB and identified as non-binary, but I don't wish to change my body. Mainly because I fear I won't like what my body will become when I finish HRT and the surgeries and won't be able to change back. I just fear that I won't like what I've become after transitioning, but it makes me feel so bad that I'm not actually male. Is this actually how I want my gender identity to be, or is this just a preference for what I want my body to be?
Would I not be genderfluid; when I believe that I shift to a man, is that my gender identity changed or is it just what I want my body to be?
I honestly don't know what my identity is, everything changes and it changes to where I believe myself to be fully queer, or that I'm fully CisHet.
Am I genderfluid, bisexual, and aroace? Transmasc, non-binary, heteroflexible, and greyrose? Am I really CisHet? I feel that my gender is relatively static; I am mainly attracted to males, but women are something that I would be interested in, but am not currently; and I do regularly feel romantic and sexual attraction, but it's very weak.
So… what am I? Because I’m not cis.
— Rowan (they/them)
At my cousin's birthday party today, our grandpa and my cousin were talking about how seniors only get to pay $80 to get into any national park with a pass from my cousin's job. And my grandpa said, "Maybe you should just say you're 21 and identify as 66 so you can get in for only $80."
I don't think that I'm queer. I think I was just confused and looking for something to control when I had nothing in my life I could control. I'm just a tomboy who supports my fellow sisters for being pretty and I'm attracted to guys but just haven't found the right one yet because all the guys I've dated are jerks and my social anxiety gets in the way. I mean, I’ve really been into guys for the last couple days now. Maybe the internet just influenced me somehow. Maybe I’m just a ‘high level’ tomboy, I like boys clothes, and being ‘one of the boys’. Maybe I’m just a pick me girl. I don’t know. I don’t know who I am anymore.
I've made a couple of posts and commented a handful of times on this wiki but I realised that I've never actually made a proper introduction, so here it is.
You can call me Cosmic, Eevee or Kira or anything along those lines.
Gender: Cis female
Pronouns: The TLDR is for simplicity's sake, just use She/Her
Sexuality: Acespec, Arospec and Bi (unsure if Bisexual, Biromantic or both. Also unsure about feelings towards Non-binary people so may or may not change in the future.)
Pronouns paragraph:
Please use She/Her. I don't mind They/Them. I also don't mind most Neopronouns but I'm not that used to using them so I might be a bit confused for a few seconds if you use them for me. Only use It/Its if you mean it in an ironic or satire way or for comedic effect. Only use He/Him if you mean it in a gender neutral way (if that makes sense).
If there's anything else you'd like to know about me, just ask.
Cisagender
*/Should not be confused with cisgenderless!/*
(Note: While cisagender is not within the gender binary, it should be treated as such, as it is still a variation of cisgender and a person using the label may not want to be considered under the genderqueer umbrella).
Cisagender is a term with several definitions and several scenarios:
The person using the label still has attachment to their original gender or being considered cis, however, they might not feel the gender.
The person insists they are cis and feel very cis but the gender does not feel like it is there.
The person feels cis but does not understand how gender is supposed to work.
The person is simultaneously agender and cis at the same time or a mix of the two.
The person is agender but feels extremely uncomfortable when considered to be under the genderqueer, trans, or nonbinary umbrellas.
The person may not feel like a man or a woman, but still feel completely cisgender at the same time.
The person may feel cisgender when not thinking about their gender but when they take the time to think about it, the gender may feel completely gone or meaningless.
The cisagender flag:
The cisagender flag has pink on the bottom and blue on the top, representing female and male, as well as being part of the cisgender flag. The black, gray, green, and white represent the lack of gender feeling or lack of gender as a whole.
There may be variations of cisagender like cisagenderflux or cisagenderfluid, however, I didn't plan that far ahead, so for now they just stay in the uncoined area.
Cisagender people may or may not still accept terms like girl, boy, Ms., Mr., etc. to describe themselves.
Cisagender subsets are cisagender-female and cisagender-male.
*Alternate/other flags!*
Iderkaaagender flag
The colors don't have any meaning; they are just as scattered and chaotic as the feeling of gender is, The question mark represents how the person has given up on trying to enough know their gender anymore.
So would gender apathetic be isogender? Isogender is a gender modality for someone who is neither cis or trans.
Is there a gender that tends to lean more towards the male spectrum, but exhibits fluidity between being a woman, half a woman, genderless, and gender neutral? 🤔💭
I'm really struggling to figure out Rowan's gender stuff. Like, I've looked into all these fancy terms like doxigender and fluvarilian, but none of them seem to really fit him when I've talked to him. It's like trying to shove a square peg into a round hole, ya know?
He's told me his gender feels like this big mix of stuff: agender, gendervoid, genderless, demigender, trans man, non-binary, and even cis woman sometimes. Plus, he says it's all kinda fluid and switches up all the time. It's like his gender's a whole TV with different channels playing.
Sometimes it's like the TV's just off, like he's not feeling any gender at all. Other times, it's like he's tuned into a channel but the signal's kinda fuzzy, you can only only see half or some of it. And then there are times when he's totally cool with sticking with the channel that appeared when he first turned on the TV, and sometimes he changes it to a channel that is very different from the show that appeared when he first turned on the TV.
I just wanna find something that makes him feel seen and understood, but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
So one of my OCs has DID (dissociative identity disorder) and has 5 confirmed personalities, and she changes her personality based on things that happen to her. She has DID because of her severe trauma.
My OC (the main one who controls her body): She is bisexual and grey-aroace, with a preference for girls. And she doesn't care about her pronouns and uses all/any. Non-binary, but has a very fluid way of presenting themself, mainly andro, but likes dresses and acting like a boy. 18 years old.
Fry: She shifts to Fry when in familial situations, such as cleaning, taking care of children, cooking, etc. Fry is 7 years old. Aroace and agender. Uses she/her pronouns.
Vicky: You can tell Vicky is the one taking control of their shared body, as Vicky is sadistic and loves fighting (fighting elegantly; she loves to incorporate ballet into her fighting style); she also talks like a Victorian-era child (so all fancy-like). She is also very obedient and will listen to her father without question. Vicky is 12 years old. Asexual lesbian, agender, squidthing, and thingcenic. Uses she/her, and it/its pronouns (or thing/thing's, or any other dehuman pronouns).
Veronika: [I'm still unsure of how she shifts to Veronkia but I want to put it somewhere in the story.] 25 years old. She is cisgender, heterosexual and uses she/her pronouns.
Dara: [I'm still unsure of how she shifts to Dara but I want to put it somewhere in the story.] 56 years old. She is cisgender, heterosexual and uses she/her pronouns.
Would this be an accurate depiction of systems and DID? Also, is there any more terminology that I should be aware of? I don't have DID, so I don't want to offend anyone. I can look stuff up wiki's but I kinda understand systems…?