Hello, I'm Zim/Saiko.
I use she/her and he/him, so i can't decide if i'm demigirl or bigender. Because 90% of the demigirls i see use she/her and they/them so...uh, yeah, help?
I like the term demigirl but I don't know much about it and how do I know if I'm really that? I use she/her and okay with identifying as a girl but not fully? (if that makes sense) I just started really looking into it so I am not quite sure.
I‘ve been struggling with labeling myself for a while. Finding a little box to fit myself in just makes me feel safe?
I thought demigirl was the right one but then I stumbled upon fingender and I thought - hey, this is pretty spot on as well. Like a nice addition to demigirl, yk? Making it more clear.
I feel feminine, but I wouldn’t label myself as a woman - I like feeling and being seen as feminine, but I dislike being seen as a woman and all the social norms, stereotypes and expectations that comes with it. Sometimes I feel more masculine but I wouldn’t say I’m male either. It’s a wonky space in between sometimes. But it’s like 75-80% feminine, definitely. I use she/her/ they/them. Other terms I use for myself are greysexual, pansexual(-romantic) and polyamor.
Then I saw a line in demifemme that said „Unlike demigirl, demifemme can fall under either the fingender umbrella or the fiaspec umbrella depending in the person.“ Fiaspec mentions demigirl as a gender that falls under that term so I am very worried that demigirl and fingender is a thing that normally wouldn’t go together? Like… I know that if I personally feel like I identify with both of these of course I can use them as my label, but I am always afraid of making mistakes and stepping on other people‘s feet, so…
Also wondering if I’d count into the enby spectrum, technically. I don’t know if I wouldn’t describe myself as enby since I still feel very fem.
Gender is so confusing sometimes. Can anyone help me sort out this mess?
Hi everyone! I'm writing a story about a boy [Identifies as a girl/non-binary], but i would like to know if there is an official word for being Non-binary but also female at times. (I'm Cisgender so I dont know much. I am an Ally tho). TYSM TO ALL WHO ANSWERED
Hi! Since a few days I've been questioning my gender once again, for the same problem. I'm AFAB and I mostly feel comfortable with being a girl, even tho I still know I have a part of me that is non-binary. I've been identifying as a neogirl for some months. The thing is that I think I really like that term but it is not really known by people. And I also think maybe it's not for me and I'm using the wrong label? I'm stuck with that and at the same time I like the demigirl term? I've been thinking of paragirl, but the thing is that I don't feel any connection with it. I also looked for girlflux because one other thing is when I feel more like a girl and see a person that is nb, I will tend to that, and when I feel more girl-nb and see a person that identifies as a girl I will tell myself to stop and just being a girl, you know it's always like that. I think that's not really being flux but more like I'm questioning and scared of what people will think of me. I like being seen as a girl and being called as one, but I also have that nb part that I don't want to erase.
I'm also really feminine and use she/her prounons even if I hesitate with she/they
Sorry if that was long and if there are some mistakes
I am a Bi-Oriontated AroAce (Aromatic, Apothisexual, and happy to date most genders)
Emotions aren't really my thing, and I don't know how to know what my gender is.
I'm fine with Feministic and Neutral pronouns.
I don't like wearing skirts or dresses, ear piercings (or any piercings) will never happen but necklaces are fine, make-up isn't necessary in my life, same with nail polish, and I prefer masculine and neutral roles/jobs then feminine ones. But then sometimes (rarely) I want to be the stereotypical female; skirt, necklace, long painted nails, and earrings. (Not in public though cuz social anxiety exists)
I don't know if I'm just a Tomboy or a Demigirl, or something else.
Ola Ray:I can’t believe Michael Jackson just turned into a werewolf.he didn’t feel so good. his eyes turned yellow, he has jaws, he grows hairs and whiskers. I screamed and ran away but then he chase me howl at the moon and caught me. And attack me.
Kathy Beth Terry:don’t worry.I’ll makeover you.
Ola Ray:okay I’m ready.
(Kathy Beth Terry paint Ola Ray’s body white with a giant paint brush)
(Kathy Beth Terry took Ola Ray’s Clothes off of her)
(Kathy Beth Terry Gave Ola Ray a hat)
(Kathy Beth Terry remove Ola Ray’s ear pierced)
(Kathy Beth Terry Ears pierce Ola Ray)
(Ola Ray screamed)
(Kathy Beth Terry paint Ola Ray white)
(Kathy Beth Terry gave Ola Ray glasses)
(Kathy Beth Terry pierce Ola Ray’s nose)
(Ola Ray screamed)
(Kathy Beth Terry put Ola Ray new clothes)
(Ola Ray didn’t feel so good and she fell and flopped)
Ola Ray:I don’t feel so good. What is happening to me?
Kathy Beth Terry:you’ll see.
(Ola Ray’s voice going low and she grows)
Ola Ray:ooh,what’s happening? i feel so different.
Kathy Beth Terry:I brought a new husband for you. So you are less than pregnant.
Ola Ray: that was fast.
My first LGBTQIA+ Balls comic! sorry 4 very bad grammar n thanks 4 reading ^^
(If the comic preview is too small to read, you should long-press on the preview to download it n read it through your gallery. tq:)
So I’m a demigirl, and my preferred name is Loki. Today in one of my classes a few people were laughing at my name (obviously because of the marvel character) and it made me feel..idk icky. I really like my preferred name and do think it suits me but I’m not sure what to do about people acting weird about it
(fixed spelling mistakes)
Hii! So I am quite new to the LGBT+ community!! I am trying to figure out my identy, so I'd like some help
I think I am muktiflux as one part of me rarely changed (static), that is female and it is like 80%.
But then I have like 3 other genders that like change in intensity. These include androgynous, mingirl, neo girl, neurogender (I have adhd and a few other things) and basically some other femalealighned (and non binary) identiys. Sometime I feel 18% androgynous and 2% neo girl, and other days I feel 20% mingirl.
Thank you, stay safe!!
Edit: I am not experiencing any body dysphoria, I am biologically female, i just sometimesf eel female but not feminine.
Someone pls help me!
I used to be a girl. I had no idea the LGBTQIA+ community existed (don't judge, it's what happens when you go to private school) and I thought there were 2 genders, male and female. I had never heard of people being gay or Trans or anything else. Then I changed schools.
It was a big adjustment, but a change for the better, I think. I stuck with my straight/cis ways for a while. My new friends are mostly LGBT's, so I became used the idea. A few months ago, I came out to my friends as pansexual. But I have that part figured out already. (Mostly)
Inside my head, it's like there was a big dam of cis femininity. It was made by many years of clulessnes and denial that what I felt was different. Soon after I changed schools, the dam started to get weaker. First I was pangender, then demigirl. Then, just less than a week ago, the dam Completely collapsed. So many genders came flooding out, and I don't know if I'll ever figure them all out. I don't even know where to start. Sometimes, my gender has a color, a texture or a shape. Sometimes it's a Changing, moving blob. Sometimes it's just a big, empty dark hole. Sometimes it seems to be affected by my surroundings, other times, not so much. Its almost always Changing. For example, today I did not stay the same gender for more than an hour. All day. The one thing I have never felt is masculine, anything beyond libramasc. That's why I have been identifying as genderfae. (Basically genderfluid but no masculine feelings ever.)
And sometimes when I feel agender, it makes me uncomfortable, probably because I'm not used to it. I wish all these other, weird feelings would go away, and I could just be genderfae normally. Or is this normal? IDK. But I can't make them go away That I know of.
Also this has been affecting my mental health. I can't sleep, and I feel depressed.
Basically, I want you to do one of these things:
Tell me how to get rid of this.
If I can't get rid of it, tell me when it will go away.
If it's not going away, tell me what it's called.
If it doesn't have a name, tell me how to make a page so I can coin it.
Hi! I’ve identified as gender fluid for the past 8 months now(ish) but the label doesn’t feel like me anymore. I’ve really enjoyed using she/they/fae pronouns for a few months and am starting to feel more like a Demi girl. However, I am extremely tempted to just give up in specific labels and just say I’m genderqueer. Any advice?
I define myself mostly as a demi female around 50 - 60% and I define this part of myself specifically as demifemme since I can feel my femininity level changes with time. Up and down and up no regularity.
neutrois 40% - 50% btw I feel demineutrois as well
And 0-10% masculinity sometimes
But i am definitely not genderfluid or demifluis cuz i feel this all the time. Just the intensities of each parts would change but the percentage would never change. Do we have a term for this or I may should define myself as a demigirl+demineutrois?
Thanks everyone in advance
Ehehe- I am not having a gender crisis- I don’t need to really KNOW my gender label, but I have just been a bit confused on my whole gender identity. I will explain my feelings of my gender (note : for now- I go by cassgender since I am trying not to care about it- nor do I actually care 😃)
So I want to switch between genders but not actually identify as those other genders except for female (basically I want Camilo’s powers?-). I identify as a female but I don’t feel the need to outright say it(?) because I know that, that is what I identify most as no doubt. But sometimes I just don’t connect with femininity.
It might be confusing as heck- but this is just how I describe it-