Femininity

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lovefuck:

a lovecoric androgynous subgender that has been distorted by dissociation or mental illness, resulting in a confusing androgynous amalgamation called gender thats too hard for the person to properly label, hence lovefuck

femfuck:

a lovecoric feminine subgender that has been distorted by dissociation or mental illness, resulting in a confusing feminine amalgamation called gender thats too hard for the person to properly label, hence femfuck

mascfuck:

a lovecoric masculine subgender that has been distorted by dissociation or mental illness, resulting in a confusing masculine amalgamation called gender thats too hard for the person to properly label, hence mascfuck

all coined by me!!! @aecyll on tumblr (not posted the posts yet), coined 16/05/2025

atomically gendered:

a chemcoric subgender that views being androgynous as a major part of one's identity, making up their being like atoms do

atomically fem:

a chemcoric subgender that views being feminine as a major part of one's identity, making up their being like atoms do

atomically masc:

a chemcoric subgender that views being masculine as a major part of one's identity, making up their being like atoms do

all coined by me!! @aecyll on tumblr (not posted yet), coined 16/05/2025

I have this OC that I need pronouns for (I genuinly don't know what to make this OC).

IDK specifics or themes, just say whatever you think best fits Diamond's appearance.

Diamond is non-binary, AFAB, a fisher, looks like a farmer, had top surgery (that's why the chest area looks weird; the game can't handle it since it's a mod and not the actual game), dresses feminine, is aroace, name is Diamond.

The only rule is that it CANNOT be ***emojis*** or ***symbols*** as my game will not show them!!!!!!!!

TW: Big images (I hate how you can't re-size images...), and sorta bright

Is there a specific genderfluid sublabel where you're a girl MOST of the time, as well as agender, non-binary, and SOMETIMES a boy and/or masculine?

— Raymond (they/she/he)

Like feeling like a girl, but also not really? This is genuinely the best I can describe it.

— Stella (ix/they/she + neos)

I REALLY like being referred to as they/them, and I feel incredibly neutral-aligned, but there’s also some of me that also feels feminine or ‘girly’, however you wanna describe it, it’s the same feeling regardless. It feels like I’m both gender neutral and feminine at the exact same time. I both don’t align with any gender while also aligning with femininity.

I’m not entirely sure what label this is because it’s not librafeminine, as that implies that I’m agender/genderless while also still feeling connected to femininity, which is not how I feel. I feel neutral and feminine at the same time.

— Rae (they/them and she/her (separately))

Many people associate the female gender with pink, dresses, long hair, and make-up

Many people associate the male gender with blue, pants, short hair, and strength

So a xenogender is a gender that is associated with x thing, such as with catgender, which is a gender associated with cats

My clothes are making me feel like a boy but in a girl way. It’s actually pretty interesting. I felt similar to this before, but I didn’t exactly feel like this. It’s so weird. Like, I’m a girl but in a boy way, or I’m a boy but in a girl way! It’s one of the two and I’m not sure which!!!

Where one's is questioning their Gender, but feels disconnected from most Female aspects.

Is there a gender that feels otherworldly/ethereal but it’s also feminine?

This is a coining post for my gender. I have a flag, which I can hopefully attach here. I was questioning for a time, as I knew I was connected to femininity yet I did not feel like the label "demigirl" defined it. So, here is the definition:

A person who feels a partial connection to femininity and a partial connection to androgyny.

People who use this label do not specifically need to feel a connector to the female gender of the non-binary gender, they just should feel feminine but not wholly.

By commonly accepted terms, this is a feminine, genderqueer identity which is technically a subset of demigirl.

The pink stripes represent femininity and the aspects of the gender that resonate with more female-leaning identities.

The white represents neutral and agender identities that are also connected to the gender.

The greys represent any other identities connected to people who identify with this gender.

The flag is intended to be similar yet different to the demigirl flag. It has two stripes of white instead of one as people can identify as any proportion of the identity- as stated earlier, you don't need to feel connected to the female identity or the non binary identity, simply a connection to femininity and androgyny. Any questions, ask in the comments!

I honest to *god* I don’t know what I am anymore or even what I want to look like.

I mean, what I want to look like is pretty cute. It looks very tomboy-like. Like very masculine, but in a girl type of way. But maybe that’s too feminine for me. I have a very *toxic* relationship with my femininity. Because to me, based on my own life experience, based on the things that have happened to me within my lifetime, being feminine means being a girl and I just don’t vibe well with that.

I *don’t* fit well into the categories of man or woman. I *never have* and I *never will*. How I felt about myself has *always changed*. One minute I’m a girl, then I’m a boy, one minute I’m gender neutral, then a masculine girl, then I’m a feminine boy, then I’m absolutely nothing at all! Nothing stays the same ever! Even when I feel like a binary gender, it still feels outside the binary category even though I am feeling a binary gender. It’s kind of hard to explain. It feels like I’m feeling a binary gender, but in a different kind of way. Like not the normal way to feel a binary gender. If that makes any sense.

I don’t know. I have so many questions and absolutely no answers.

— Rowan (they/them)

It's 1 in the morning, and dysphoria hates me, so you get to hear me rant about being feminine and how it's ruining my gender and thus my life.

TW: Dysphoria, caps

I wish I was AMAB so I could be a femboy. I want to be a femboy so BAD all of a sudden for no reason at all! Being a femboy just randomly popped into my head when I thought of myself and how I am a man, but wish to dress femininely.

Like I genuinely wish I looked like this one femboy I found online! The skinniness! The hair! The face shape! Just everything about this femboy is absolutely absolutely perfect, except that I like my boobs and don't wish to get top surgery!

I just feel so… validated and seen right now. Is this what I am? Is this who I really am? A person who has a masculine gender identity, but who chooses to present themselves femininely?

Maybe I'm luneboy.

Or maybe I'm just a femboy.

It feels like I have 2 forms: (there are 2 wolves inside you) tomboy and femboy… maybe I'm bigender, as sometimes it happens at the same time.

Feeling feminine is giving me gender euphoria instead of gender dysphoria like normal. But it's femininity in the way that boys are feminine, NOT in the way girls are feminine.

I feel a lot happier now! Ever since considering myself as a femboy it feels like something in my brain just clicked into place! It just feels so peaceful, ethereal, light, and just oh so amazing!

I want to be a goth/emo femboy!

I honestly hate how I look IRL. I just absolutely hate my appearance. But it's so hard to change, especially with how busy I am with everything going on IRL in my life right now.

IDK. Saying I'm a femboy brings me more gender euphoria.

I guess rosboy fits me more definition wise. I am a man who is feminine in appearance.

IDK what I want to look like. Feminine yes, but also masculine… I want to be a femboy and a tomboy at the same time. I'm not sure what to do… Is this a gender shift? Am I genderfluid?

I need to be punk! But I also want to be soft looking and wearing lots of pink!

I am much happier believing myself to be a feminine guy rather than a feminine girl.

Sometimes I feel like a masculine girl, feminine girl, a feminine boy, masculine guy, gender neutral, nothing at all, both a girl and a boy at the same time.

What label feels *right* to me?

Everything… and nothing all at the same time.

Well, I'm not a full man or woman, I'm kinda nothing, but also very feminine in the same way men are feminine in a girl way. I want my body to be that of a male (AMAB, cis man, whatever you want to call it) and I wish to be feminine in my gender presentation. I like everybody regardless of everything. If I find you attractive, which I most likely will, then I'm attracted to you, simple as that. I'm repulsed by the idea of personally engaging in sexual and romantic activity and having someone else sexually attracted to me (not romantically attracted to me, I'm more okay with that, but it's still pretty unwanted).

Rosboy, panromantic, and asexual?

Maybe my gender isn't anything related to being a girl and I just mixed up gender identity and gender presentation.

Why can't I be a feminine man? Nothing is saying I can't be but some mental block inside myself.

Am I actually non-binary or do I just like that word? How do I actually feel?

I can easily call myself lesbian, but I can never call myself even though I feel like a man no matter what I do I always have a female body. Again, it's some kind of mental block.

Whenever I consider calling myself demiboy, I feel… special? Why special? I've also considered this label many times, but not as many times as non-binary.

Genderfluid and pan? Non-binary and bi? Rosboy, panromantic, and aegosexual?

WHY IS IDENTITY SO HARD!?!??!?!?!?!

I'm a very truthful person, so lying about my identity and pretending to be something I'm not is not something I'm interested in, so I guess that's another reason why I want to find the perfect labels so bad.

Why is it so hard to accept my labels as me? I guess I do have internalized queerphobia but only towards myself. Other people are vibe so I don't care what they do or identify as.

Am I really he/she, or am I they/them, she/they, he/they? Expressing my thoughts through pronouns is a little easier than with words. She = woman, he = man, they = non-binary.

[rant over… for now at least]

— Rowan (they/them)

Is there a gender where you are a boy or miaspec but highly connected to femininity? You’re a boy, but you’re very feminine, both in gender identity and in presentation. You just have a very feminine energy and vibe and tone and aesthetic, but are completely a guy/male/miaspec/man/boy.

1. Whenever Rowan talks about his gender identity, he always describes as being heavily disconnected from womanhood, but in theory, enjoying feminine clothing aesthetics, and being a lot boy, but not entirely boy, and having a “base/default” gender of non-binary/agender.

2. Also, whenever he describes his sexuality, he always describes it as having the /capacity/ to being attracted to more than gender, where gender doesn’t play a role at all, if somebody is pretty, then they are pretty. he literally thinks everybody is attractive.

3. but it’s a little more confusing when it comes to romance. He said he desperately desires romance, but at the same time he feels it very, very weekly. He desires to have his soulmate and to live the rest of his life with the person that he loves, but at the same time, he doesn’t want it at all and rather be single for the rest of his life. it’s like paradox, it is both yes and no at the exact same time.

Any idea as to what any of this is? Even if it is just one of the things I would still be very helpful.

Was´ wonderin if ya guys have any genders are masc but in a fem way

[new link´.] And ah any icetype pokémon you know of? If ya can guess who you it is betcha your correct! :)

Thank ya!

- Harely, she/it shey/shem

Is there a gender that has a moderate connection to femininity, is strongly connection to masculinity, open to exploring gender-neutral identities but also have some comfort with traditional gender roles and expressions, a strong alignment with aspects of non-binary and androgynous identities, and strong connection to the concept of genderlessness.

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Hello Im looking for 3 things:

1. Name suggestions

• Popstar inspired

• Neon vibes

• Idol vibes

2. Genders Suggests:

• Think like Idol gender

• Fem aglined

• Music

• Popstar

3. Neopronouns

• Popstar coded

• Music coded

• Dessert coded

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Chloe shey/shem

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