So, I've been tracking my gender today since I had nothing better to do, and the data is:
Agender: 26.67%
FINgender: 13.33%
Librafeminine: 13.33%
Demiboy: 13.33%
Azurboy: 6.67%
Libramasculine: 6.67%
Paragirl: 6.67%
Binary Man (Trans): 6.67%
Non-binary: 6.67%
So I've come to the conclusion that I'm genderfaunet, and I was also tracking my attraction, and I'm mostly attracted to men, so does that mean I'm gay (mlm)? Straight since I feel fem genders (wlm)? I'm confused...
— Raymond (They/Them)
I REALLY like being referred to as they/them, and I feel incredibly neutral-aligned, but there’s also some of me that also feels feminine or ‘girly’, however you wanna describe it, it’s the same feeling regardless. It feels like I’m both gender neutral and feminine at the exact same time. I both don’t align with any gender while also aligning with femininity.
I’m not entirely sure what label this is because it’s not librafeminine, as that implies that I’m agender/genderless while also still feeling connected to femininity, which is not how I feel. I feel neutral and feminine at the same time.
— Rae (they/them and she/her (separately))
So genderfaunet is a type of genderfluid that is fluid between masculine genders/mingenders/miaspec genders/maingenders, ningenders, agingenders, and xenogenders? But can there also be fluidity between genders that are feminine in a non-binary way? Like are feminine genders/fingenders/fiaspec genders but in a way that is /not/ binary? /genq
Is there a gender that is woman-related, or very feminine in nature, but is completely unrelated to the gender binary?
Would you consider MINgenders (masculine in nature), FINgenders (feminine in nature), AGINgenders (agenine/agender in nature), and NINgenders (neutral in nature) every gender? Or at least encompessing a large majority of genders? /genq
Because sometimes I feel all genders at once or just one gender at a time. So I was wondering if this feeling was an omnigender or pangender thing. /gen
Does anybody know a label that is fluid between mingenders, fingenders, and more neutral or genderless genders? Thanks :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
There’s a demimin but not demifin for some reason. I just realized this so I will now fix the problem.
(yes this is copied and pasted from the demimin page but changed a little)
Demifin is a gender identity in which one's gender is partly fingender and is also partly a gender under the non-binaryumbrella, including non-binary itself.
Demimin is a demigender and a subset of demifem.
@UsingSchoolEmailLol I got idea from
2019: ally
2020: questioning
2021: ally
(Get ready)
2022: *breathes in* omnisexual, demisexual, repricosexual (idk how to spell it) idk what gender,
*later in the year (French narrator voice from spongebob)*
Agender, aroace
2023: lunarset, panromantic, demiromantic, still asexual
(Goes through multiple gender AAAHHHH's)
Now: Fingender, Demigirlflux Demigenderfluid, omniromantic, asexual, demiromantic, venufluid, revealgender, and multiple xenogenders, I have a Pinterest link to them I'd you would like
(Woah that is a lot, imma update this post when i learn more stuff abt me)
{I'm bringing it upon myself to try make GotD posts every day, but no promises aha!}
Demifem
"Demifem or Demifin describes someone who's gender is partly a fingender (feminine in nature) and partly a non-binary gender."
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Demifem
I'm sure most of us are familiar with genderfae, a gender that fluctuates between non-masculine and mingenders. I found a similar gender like that, but it doesn't fluctuate. It's called "faeian." Personally I'm really glad I found it because it describes me well.
So, a gender that's similar to genderfae, but isn't fluid or doesn't fluctuate? Like experiencing all/most genders under the non-binary umbrella and all genders in feminine nature, but never feeling masculine in nature, yes being stagnant? Or would that simply be demigirl (where the gender is composed of multiple different parts, but is still one gender)?
Fingender is an umbrella gender for all genders that are femmine in nature.
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Fingender
Fingender
Mingender
Ningender
I‘ve been struggling with labeling myself for a while. Finding a little box to fit myself in just makes me feel safe?
I thought demigirl was the right one but then I stumbled upon fingender and I thought - hey, this is pretty spot on as well. Like a nice addition to demigirl, yk? Making it more clear.
I feel feminine, but I wouldn’t label myself as a woman - I like feeling and being seen as feminine, but I dislike being seen as a woman and all the social norms, stereotypes and expectations that comes with it. Sometimes I feel more masculine but I wouldn’t say I’m male either. It’s a wonky space in between sometimes. But it’s like 75-80% feminine, definitely. I use she/her/ they/them. Other terms I use for myself are greysexual, pansexual(-romantic) and polyamor.
Then I saw a line in demifemme that said „Unlike demigirl, demifemme can fall under either the fingender umbrella or the fiaspec umbrella depending in the person.“ Fiaspec mentions demigirl as a gender that falls under that term so I am very worried that demigirl and fingender is a thing that normally wouldn’t go together? Like… I know that if I personally feel like I identify with both of these of course I can use them as my label, but I am always afraid of making mistakes and stepping on other people‘s feet, so…
Also wondering if I’d count into the enby spectrum, technically. I don’t know if I wouldn’t describe myself as enby since I still feel very fem.
Gender is so confusing sometimes. Can anyone help me sort out this mess?
