Gender Expression

nonbinary gendermess

Nonbinary gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single gender outside of the gender binary(unincluding xenogenders or neogenders), and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

nonfemale gendermess

Nonfemale gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single gender (unincluding xenogenders or neogenders) except for female or female aligned genders, and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

nonmale gendermess

Nonmale gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single gender (unincluding xenogenders or neogenders) except for male or male aligned genders, and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

Femmasc gendermess

Femmasc gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single gender (unincluding xenogenders or neogenders) except for non female or male aligned genders, and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

Gendermess

Gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single gender (unincluding xenogenders or neogenders), and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

Xenoinclusive gendermess

Xenoinclusive gendermess is defined as a gender where one feels a fluxuation and fluid of 30% every single xenogender, and 70% gendervoid/no gender at all.

Tell me if any of these are not valid or have pre existing terms/names already used :))

I've asked this question before but i cant find where i asked it, I think i may have discussed it on my previous acount (which i forgot the password for :( )

There is a label where your gender becomes whatever your current gender presentation is, can someone help me find this label?

Aaron {he/any}

Does ahnyone ave different ways I can bind without a binder?

I considered sports bras, but my mom told me that I can get really hot in those. The only place I can get anything is Amazon at the moment. I can't get trans tape because I'm not out yet. I thought of minimizer bras or compression bras, but I can't find any good ones that give me the result I want. The only thing I have right now is an old tank top I used for a play once. I can fold it to get my chest a bit smaller. But that's it! What things ywould ou recommend to make my chest smaller?

I want to tell her in the next few days and I've been procrastinating since I figured out I wanted to go by Adrian about a year and a half ago. She already knows I'm genderfluid and will be fine with it but idk how to bring it up.

-Adrian (he/they/hey)

First pronoun update of the year lol. Still can't go 3 months without some sort of update tho. My favorite pronouns sets are he/him they/them and hey/hem (use it like they/they but with an h instead of th). And I'm fine with any neutral and masculine ones still.

Random comment: I painted my nails black earlier (I'd send a picture but there's polish on my fingers I still need to get off lol)

Been feeling more horror than party for gender so that's fun. Here's some names that I totally didn't collect from my childhood:

Sudds

Banger

Joules

Stunts

Trixy

Partyfavor

Loki

If you know, you know also I love how many sides I have. There is the nonhuman side whose horrorish, terrifying creatures thingy with edgy names like Teivel the (devil.) Then you have blurrish human names with a touch of randomness aka Moss, Screech but still cool names like Vídarr meaning forest spirit. Then you have these.

Listening to music makes me feel so nonhuman fem yet masc wearing black pants and a binder looks like a crop top hair is messy and fluffy hell yeah might wear a skirt tomorrow or better yet binder as a crop top and a leather jacket pentacle necklace and the cowardly sunglasses. Strange how the nonhuman side clashes with gender except for masc/fem god this feeling is so strong.

Lovegender always take over in some way its in different forms. I feel like one of the Pinterest boys people obsess over obsession and love genders mix too.

Earlier I fit a (small) book it one of the pockets of my cargo pants. Why do women almost never get pockets? (I manage to have good pockets part of the time even though I almost always wear women's stuff)

Putting that book in my pocket made me euphoric because men usually have bigger pockets.

New type of euphoria unlocked: pocket euphoria

I've also felt pocket dysphoria after actually having good pockets for 48ish hours. I refused to use my puny girl pockets after that because of dysphoria. :/

I was kinda feeling down cuz of dysphoria but then a saw a picture of myself from a year ago. The comparison was just ufdkhffouflh. /pos I still don't look completely like a guy but the progress just made me euphoric.

(i think this goes in general)

I’m going to a queer-owned barbershop for a haircut today and im gonna ask them for a haircut that can be masculine or feminine that i wont regret

I’m excited

I just remember that I'm planning on wearing a dress to homecoming after painting my nails and getting my ears pierced. I need to come out. Hopefully my gender will stay more mild during the dance so I can have a good time with my partner.

I need a binder, but I'm not out yet.

I want my ears pierced.

My name is too fem.

My voice is too fem.

I present too fem for anyone to precive me masculine.

My dysphoria's been worst recently.

I've been feeling more masculine recently.

I don't know if it's my revealgender.

I don't know if it's my fluid-fluid.

I hope it's my fluid-fluid.

I don't want to be transmasc.

It would just mean more dysphoria.

Uuuggggggghhhhhhhhhhhghhhh

I like feminine stuff in black

Dresses. Eh

Black dresses. Yes

Painting my nails. Meh

Pairing my nails black. Yeah. I need to repaint them.

Getting my ears pierced. Not my thing.

Having black earrings. Omg. I want my ears pierced so bad.

Intro

Ok let's goooooo...

Since I have to make little updates on my bio, I thought making this would be interesting 😅

So here's mine simplified : ace-spec, questioning (but something polyromantic), and girlflux

Sexual attraction

Mine is a little complicated...I'm at the beginning of all the questioning and I've come to the conclusion I wasn't interested by sex, but I don't know if it's that I'm not ready or if I'm just ace or something.

I would say it's Ace-spec though, and I mostly say Quoisexual (a funny french name yk, because I'm french and all that)

Asexual Spectrum (or ace-spec) = feeling little to no sexual attraction or feeling it only in some situations (aka being under the ace umbrella)

Quoisexual = not knowing what's sexual attraction as you never felt it or just took that for something else (in my case, there are other definitions but like this one is mine)

But yeah, I also thought I would be a Demiace if I went to feel sexual attraction one day

Demisexual (or demiace) = not feeling sexual attraction towards someone until you have any type of emotional bond with that person (so you would need to be friends or romantic partners for example before feeling sexual attraction)

Romantic attraction

Well, the other complicated one...😅

I came to the conclusion that I'm obviously not a Lesbian (because I love my boyfriend romantically and I'm a girl so...), though I may be Biromantic because I feel a weird thing towards some girls and I really don't know if it's romantic or not, so...I'm kinda lost with this one, so I basically just say I'm Zed/Alloromantic (some people don't like Allo- for some reason I don’t remember, so I tend to use Zed- that means exactly the same thing)

Biromantic = feeling romantic attraction towards 2 different genders

Zed/Alloromantic = feeling romantic attraction "normally" (not being on the aro-spec)

Tertiary attractions

In terms of tertiaries I’m not complicated (at least Ig so). I’m Panplatonic, Demisensual Pansensual and Omniaesthetic.

Panplatonic = feeling platonic attraction in a "gender blind" way (gender doesn’t change anything in your attraction)

Demisensual = only feeling sensual attraction towards people you have made an emotional bond with (for me that means I don’t wanna touch or be touched by people I don’t know well, for now only family, bf and some friends are allowed to hug me, I just wouldn’t give free hugs 🙃)

Pansensual = sensual attraction is felt the same towards all genders (the persons I wanna hug can be all genders, idc)

Omniaesthetic = liking someone’s aesthetic but it changes with the person’s gender somehow

Gender

I’m a Demicis Girlflux, I would go from Female "down" to Agender, sometimes I’ve also felt a bit Nonbinary so yeah that’s basically super fun when you dress up 😑 (this is often brought up)

Demicisgender (or demicis) = being only partly cisgender (for me it’s due to my gender fluxuation but it can be because of having multiple genders or something)

Girlflux = being genderflux in the "girly" genders (so basically the intensity goes from none to 100% female)

Alignment & Expression

Someone here recently coined the Garden Alignments System, and they created one with me that is Tulian, and it perfectly fits (obviously because I sorta help making that one)

Tulian = being woman-, feminine- and androgynous-aligned (I tend to have a female gender and present feminine or neutral, I also act weirdly and not so feminine as society kinda "expects" me to act, so that's why)

I could also claim Expressionfluid 😅

Expressionfluid = your gender expression changes (clothes, behaviour etc)

Pronouns

I mostly use she/her and they/them, but I tend to go Nullpronominal or sorta Panpronominal on the extremes so it’s definitely Pronounflux (I wanna try this sign out thing some people do on here, but yeah, which name do I put since Neo-Azilys isn't my real name, although I quite like it, so yeah Ig I'll sign with Neo or whatever nickname I could find with that)

Nullpronominal = using no pronouns (I basically just go by name, but some people prefer avoiding gendered terms)

Panpronominal = going by any and all pronouns

Pronounflux = your preferred pronouns fluxuate in the intensity you like them used (I have in mind this histogram thing like the one you can find with cinetic and potential energies but with she/her and they/them instead of the energies, I'll make that one day to show you, I promise)

Conclusion

So yeah, I’ll say attractions are weird and still difficult for me to understand, I think I finally got it though with my gender and pronouns so it’s not that bad !

It’s almost pool season. This means it’s almost SWIMSUIT season. This means no way to cover up my curves. This means dysphoria.

How am I supposed to hide breasts with a freakin bikini top and rashguard!? What am I supposed to do!? I’m not even out yet and pool season is pretty soon! What the heck do I do!? *groans*

Last year I had to go to the pool like once a week (except for some because I don’t want to learn to use a tampon) cuz my sister (they/she) wanted to! I’m not even out yet. I also don’t just want to pretend I hate the pool and just sir around reading a book by the pool most of the time when I’m uncomfortable with my breasts. *groans more*

I'm Demicis Girlflux, and it's leading me to a struggle with my gender expression...

I explain : I have long hair and I like it when feeling girly, but when I feel more agender/neutral I want them to look androgynous.

I currently attach them in a low ponytail, but I find it too feminine when I'm closer to agender.

The problem is that all the androgynous hairstyles I find online are short, and I don't want to cut my hair...

Anyone has an idea ? I've already seen some things with long hair but they all involve a hat, and I can't be wearing a hat all day long, especially indoors...