Gender Non-Conforming

Hello there!!

Can we help me with my friend? She is looking for her gender identity but afraid and too shy to asking it by herself, So I want to try to do this instead of her but accross her name!

Sooo

She is afab and in general feels comfort with fem gender, used to use she/her pronouns although doesn't mind about neutral or he/him (also she using it in her little comfort web-bubble) but says it doesn't mean that she feel herself as enby/agender or male/masc! Her style based on more neutral or a little masc vibe than femme, but slightly femme elegance is ok. She would like to be a little more neutral [androgynous] in her look and behaviour but not so much. Kind of between female and neutral like half-girl half-neutral and she says she feel herself like "I am kind of 60% fem, 30% neutral, 10% masc...maybe".

Welp, If I can ask like this — can you help me to help her? Which gender terms can be suit to her? She prefers to use queer person label now but not sure it's completely suits and reflect her...

I'm not good in terms although I'm lgbtqia+ member a long time so I'm not sure I can completely help her! I offered "gender nonconforming female", "queer" or maybe "queer female" or "demigirl" but she is not sure about it except queer\gener-nonconforming probably could be good variant ~~~

Tw: lots of caps

Buffer images bc why not:

Oki that’s enough random images

IMM BACKKKKK

Ik almost all of u prob DONT rememember me….

I had to take a little break from internet for a while because of my mental health…… sowwy

Still noy rlly sorted out my mental health yhough…

Think it may have gotten worse

But on the bright side, IVE explored my identity a lot too

So here’s the list (so far)

Also theres like things I do like for if u don’t remember me / never knew me

Names:

(Ik, but I got multiple and I gotta start somewhere)

Dani

Seraph

Age: Minor :3

Things I like: cats, reading, playing like retro games (like 8-bit, 1990-2000s games), listening to music, specifically punk/emo/rock/indie/whatever people ask me to listen to, baking, DW, supernatural, starwars (a bit), bugs (a bit), like almost any type of mythology (a lot), cycling, acting, singing,

Things I want people to know about me: I AM AVAILABLE AS A FREE THERAPIST /hj. Srsly tho, if u feel down, talk to me about it, I can maybe help, if I can’t, we can still talk abt whatever u want

Sexualitys:

Sex-indifferent Asexual

Omniromantic

Something else on the aromatic spectrum, havent been able to look into it yet. Maybe grey romantic/demiromantic?

Genders:

Genderfae

Genderglitch

Transsexual

(Maybe GNC??????????)

Schrodigender

Schrodifluid

Shapeshiftergender

Shapeshiftgender

Shiftgender

Angelicgender

Aberrorex

Angelifluid

Also maybe like therian?

Still looking into it

Pronouns… thats a whole new story mate, imma need a bit to think of those /hj

But srsly pronouns ( for now)

She/her

They/them

Ey/em

E/er

Xe/xir

It/its

Ey/eyes/eyeself

Ser/sers/serself

Sera/seraph/seraphself

Wheel/wheels/wheelself

So… ummm… hai

Im back anyway

Also I have a tumblr now :3

(it’s @ gendermiiiilk)

And yeah…..

Life

My brain in three seconds:

Hmmm should this go in general or intros

Imma put it in intros

Hehehe

Also Duolingo bc its literally one of the only things keeping me going st this point:

so im non-binary, and i go by 3 names. otto, river, and rayna. i also prefer when people call me rayna or river they use he/him and when they use otto, she/her. is there any label or anything for this??? does it just fall under gender non-conforming!?

edit: i am aware that pronouns dont equal gender /nbr

Jeez ill hit 1000 posts soon-

^I posted something earlier about this movie if you know what movie this is from i will be happy cause i love this movie

Sorry for the off topic but i saw i was at 899 posts soo-

Is this a thing among other people? In Portuguese, I prefer o/ele/-o (he/him) over a/ela/-a (she/her), but in English I prefer she/her over he/him. And in Spanish I prefer elle/le (they/them) exclusively.

Though it should be noted I prefer neolanguage in Portuguese (such as u/éle/ily/-y, -/elf/- (article omission/gender-neutral syntaxis) I don't mind ê/elu/ile/-e or x/elx/-x) and neopronouns/neurodivergent nounself pronoun in English (shey/shem, ey/em, hush/hushs).

I'm trying to come with a syntagma/term to describe this I'm wondering if cross-language or interlanguage nonconforming would fit (it should be noted it's not just about pronouns, because in my native language it's not just pronouns that are gendered).

I have made ✨art✨ (well- a character sheet collage kinda thing, but still)

(According to ibis paint this took like- 4 hours but idk how much I believe that)

Should I share more art? Idk how long this old oc motivation is gonna last- I’ve got another from the same fandom but I haven’t drawn them yet hhh

hi!! :D this isn’t much about my gender identity itself, but i’m afab, identify as a girl and use she/her pronouns. sometimes i like to feel masculine and express masculine through my clothing. is there a name for that? i’m not so much of a tomboy (i used to be when i was younger) because i usually dress pretty feminine nowadays but i have times where i feel like dressing/presenting/feeling more masculine! i’ve looked at a ton of terms like: rosgirl, azurgirl, paragirl, demiboy, androgynous, femandrogyne, androgyneflux, androflux, bigender, cis-genderless, genderqueer etc., but they don’t exactly fit how i feel, as i’m looking for a word that can fit fluctuating clothing gender expression? could this be gender non-conforming? :)

i’m not really looking for a term in the non-binary spectrum or wanting a different gender identity. i’m not sure if i have gender dysphoria at all (i might have, but i think it was just gender envy), but i am envious of a lot of masc presenting women and fem presenting males. i don’t know if anything exists as i’ve described out there, but thank you for reading and helping out! :D

Hello everyone! I was wondering if someone could try different pronouns for me? I want to see how if feels. Could you try anything that's not she/her?

Have a great day!