Genderfaer

1. I am AMAB

2. I currently consider myself demiboy

3. I am comfortable being male/a man/a boy and do not wish to transition into a woman/female/a girl. I am comfortable being reffered to this way and using he/him pronouns. Basically im totally cool with being called "boy, man, dude" etc, and using masc pronouns.

4. BUT I present more femininely, have more feminine traits, like feminine things, and relate to girls/women more, and im also cool with being called feminine pronouns and sometimes feminine titles.

5. I go by all pronouns (he/she/they, mainly he)

6. I am considering genderfaer

I edited one of the genderfluid symbols and took inspiration from the demiboy symbol. It's also kinda similar to the genderfaunet symbol i made since they're both based on the same genderfluid symbol.

I don't understand my gender. For the last few months, I was a cis girl. Then earlier today I was a trans man??? And now I'm nothing? I'm agender? Genderless? I don't feel any type of gender. There's nothing in the place where my gender should be. I don't understand this at all… I was genderfluid because I went through all genders, then I was genderfaunet because I never felt like a binary girl, then I was a cis girl because that's what I felt like for MONTHS, then I was genderfaer because my gender changed, but I never was a binary man. Now I'm something else because I was a binary man, binary girl, agender/genderless, non-binary, sometimes xenogender. It doesn't make any sense.

— Raymond (he/she/they)

So, Ive always kinda felt.. weird about gender, I never really felt like a girl (I'm afab, to clarify), and I never really felt much like a boy ethier, I always kinda didn't like the idea of makeup, dresses, skirts, ect ect, I mostly liked the "boys side" of things, like more masc clothes, always kinda wanted short hair, ect, when I eventually grew older, I realized I kinda did feel like a boy, really wanted short hair and masc clothes, but sometimes I did feel like a girl, but it was rare, I started to realize that I was feeling gender dysphoria around 5 years old, but never thought I was a boy till I was about 11 or 12, around then is when covid started, so I couldn't really socialize and figure out who I like and who I truly was, I also started to identify as genderfluid, nonbinary, and many other identities such as demigirl, demiboy, ect back and forth until i settled with just trans male, for a long time, until I realized my gender was more fluid, and definitely not just male, i was really confused and frustrated with my gender at this point, i settled with genderfaunet for a very very long time till i got confused again, cause i realized my gender is a bit more complex then just genderfaunet, fastforward to a few days ago I decided on Genderfaer because I realized I was more connected to femininity, then I realized I'm more connected to femininity, and my gender isn't as fluid, since I've been through so many genders, mostly masc ones, came out, cut my hair, "changed" my name (not legally) and go by different pronouns, I feel as though "becoming" a girl again would be like a whole transitioning process again, so i decided on afab transfem, I feel a bit guilty using the term since i feel im not using it right, but i will probably get over that, i may or may not just decide on this identity, come out again, and live a good life, but i still gotta figure it out, anyways, this is the end of this essay, thank you for reading till the end, I appreciate it a whole lot, feel free to give any advice, opinions or anything on this essay, anyways, good luck out there y'all, and have a good evening/morning/night, the end.. - Finley, she/her

I'm genderfaer (genderdoer) and I'm happy I finally found myself (I think lol) so here's a fun list of genders I'm fluid between, not all of them are included but most of them are, I was not gonna include xenos cause that'd take years.

- Kit, river or Finley, she/they

Can somebody explain the difference between these two? I know it's the variation in the intensity of your gender, but I don't fully understand what that means. I think I'm doerflux but I'm not entirely sure

Edit: My gender is always on the full fem-nonbinary-(rarely) agender spectrum somewhere, but (as I think I've seen somewhere before as somebody explained flux genders) it is like a percentage. Like one day I'll feel 20% fem and 80% nonbinary and the next I'll feel 67% fem and the next I'll feel 2% fem etc etc. So would this be flux? Or is this just genderdoer?

The flags are beautiful, the gender is awesome, but it isn't me

I wish it was me

But it isn't :((

Hello! I would like some feedback on the gender labels I have written below.

I would specifically like to know if there are any other umbrella terms that I should include, if the grammar is correct and clear, and if there are any fin/mingender xenogenders that could be included in the exceptions like rosboy or azurgirl.

I will also be adding other info and such to the page, but I want to primarily make sure that I have solid definitions.

Gendersilen (or Genderùruisg) is a form of genderfluidity that does not encompass genders that are women-aligned, fiaspec, or anything similar. Gendersilen individuals tend not to feel fingenders unless it is also man-aligned like rosboy. Gendersilen is under the genderfaunet umbrella

This identity is to specifically include any genders under the umbrella terms: Mingender, Agingender, Ningender, Aporagender and Xenogender.

It should also be noted that xenogenders that may be viewed as feminine by society, but are not defined as being feminine-aligned, are included.

Gendersilkie is a form of genderfluidity that does not encompass genders that are man-aligned, miaspec or anything similar. Gendersilen individuals tend not to feel fingenders unless it is also woman-aligned like azurgirl. Gendersilkie is under the genderfaer umbrella

This identity is to specifically include any genders under the umbrella terms: Fingender, Agingender, Ningender, Aporagender and Xenogender.

It should also be noted that xenogenders that may be viewed as masculine by society, but are not defined as being masculine-aligned, are included.

I've been questioning my gender for a little while, so I decided to finally try and get to the bottom of it. This might be a bit of a ramble, so look at the questions for the TLDR. XD

I am AFAB, and when I first initially starting questioning, I came to the conclusion that I was cassfem. As time has gone on, though, I've realized I want a label for it, as it makes me more comfortable. Originally, I identified as girlflux, but I think I've outgrown that label. I started investigating more and came up with genderqueer, genderdoer, and demifluid/demifluidflux. Which leads me to my questions:

1) Most days I feel like a mix of feminine and nonbinary, with sparse, occasional days of more masc/nonbinary. Does this fit the label of genderfaer/genderdoer or is there another that I've missed that might fit it better?

2) I feel like I simultaneously identify as genderqueer and genderfaer/genderdoer. Would that fit under demifluid/demifluidflux? Or am I not understanding the demi- identities properly?

3) Can someone explain the differences between demifluid and demifluidflux a bit more? I get the difference between demifluid and demiflux, but fluidflux is still a bit confusing for me.

Thank you in advance to anyone that answers!

Hi, I’m afab! My pronouns are he/ze/they/she btw!

So, I used to identify as nb, then genderfluid, then genderflux, then genderfaunet, and now genderfaer. But I’ve kinda been questioning my gender. I feel like if I could describe my gender it’d be a gender identity where you can feel any feminine or masculine genders (mainly masculine genders) but whenever you DO feel a feminine gender, you still feel like a masculine gender at the same time and you feel more of that masculine gender than the feminine gender. And sometimes, you may also feel non-binary and Xeogender at times. I really hope there’s a gender for this..!

Sooo can anyone help me figure my gender out?

I pretty much always feel female, but it changes in intensity in certain aspects. I’m never fully male but I guess both at the same time on occasion? And it changes based on environment. I’m between girlflux and genderfaer. Is it possible to be both…?

I’m unsure of my gender and I’m suspecting that I’m genderfaer, if anyone from that community could talk to me/be willing to give me advice that would b greatly appreciated