Girlflux

When someones identity fluctuates between knowing that they are 100% a girl and being completely confused on what they are. They may be also be girlflux but don't identify as such for personal reasons, be a girl but their understanding of their gender changes, or be something else entirely.

I made 2 different flags, one being a muted version of the girlflux flag and the other being it's own thing (but still based/created off of the girlflux flag)

I may make a boy version.

Idk if someone else made this but that's okay.

Muted girlflux version

Unique version

I've identified as girlflux for a while, but recently it feels like the label isn't fitting me fully.

I never really identify as fully "female" and when I feel my most feminine I still feel like a demigirl... I don't think I've ever fully been a woman. I also feel non-binary and genderqueer sometimes, but other times I feel completely genderless or just unable to understand my gender at all. I never feel masculine though.

Is there a label that works for this?

Thanks!!

I feel partially non-binary but partially feminine. But the feminine part is fluid in intensity. Sometimes I feel completely neutral, other times more like a demigirl. Usually I feel pretty neutral.

I've felt comfortable with being some kind of girl or feminine gender, I currently identify as girlflux but today? nOPE my gneder is shiny glittery things and I feel disconnected from the idea of being a girl.

Any other genderflux people here? Did I just hit agender or is it a xenogender now? I've always like sparkly stuff... i might be an undercover crow /j But it's never been to the extreme of literally replacing my gender.

Can someone who identifies as girlflux still use Xenogenders? I'm quite curious since I have been thinking about it (my apologies if this sounds stupid)

Well, i said here that im demigirl. But im not even sure, that im demigirl, *at all*. My gender just kinda fluids. Sometimes, or somehow often.

I heard of genderfae past year, i liked this label and flag. This is reason i make almost every headcanon/character to be this gender. (Even though, not all headcanons. For example, i remember having 2 genderfae headcanons. Theyre genderfae because of headcanon-canon wars in the fandom, when in canon theyre actually males (but i didnt rlly liked the idea of it, at one of characters. ;-;))

And i think that i was *really* was very tied up to genderfae stuff, so it has got influence on me.

And i dont even know if im allowed to use this label, cuz im not even fully at non-binary gender system. Just like, not 100% non-binary. Also, you can use any label you feel comfy with, as long it doesnt hurt people, correct? And i dont want to use the genderfae label unless im sure that it wont hurt the people.

As i said earlier, my gender kinda fluids. Sometimes i feel like im just girl, no nonbinary stuff. Sometimes i feel little androgyny, sometimes little agender, sometimes little gendervoid.

My friend said that it would be girlflux, but i dont rlly like this label, tbh. (Sorry for girlflux people!)

Can you pls help me out? That would be nice of you^^

******[I can't find a way to make this sound not transphobic. So just know that I am //not// being transphobic; I'm just trying to specify what I'm experiencing in terms of "adult attraction" (since I know most of you guys are under 18...)]******

CW: Caps, mention of male and female genitalia (nothing graphic), Generalizations

I'm a lot happier thinking of myself as a boy because I am a boy (AFAB). I've always been a boy. It's just that the outside doesn't show what the inside is. What I am is a boy who is gender neutral and occasionally feels like a girl who is attracted to both boys and girls and everyone else, but is mostly satisfied with fantasies and doesn't always 100% of the time actually want to date anybody, but occasionally I have a super intense and depressing longing for a romantic companionship with somebody.

Damn, if I wasn't multisexual, then I would actually consider myself straight, meaning that I am attracted to girls. The first time I've ever actually considered myself as that. I don't know why today I just feel very aligned with being a male.

You know what? I'm also actually incredibly gay. Like [male genitalia]! But [female genitalia]! Both are so good and amazing, and I want both! I don't care what their internal sense of identity is; you either have a [male genitalia] or a [female genitalia], no one between (disregarding intersex because that’s usually a chromosome or hormone thing). It doesn't matter if you were born with it or not. I do not care. If you have a [male genitalia] or a [female genitalia], then there is a HIGH likelihood that I will be attracted to you.

Like, obviously, I care for, respect, and love somebody's gender identity, regardless of what it is. I'm not a jerk.

But when it comes to romantic attraction, if I find a person's physical attributes attractive (aesthetic attraction), which is usually regardless of their gender identity, then I am attracted to them romantically, but in regards to sexual attraction, I am attracted to literally ANYBODY (ANY GENDER) who has male or female genitalia. This includes LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING ON THIS PLANET!

I'm not saying that someone's gender identity isn't valid; I'm just saying it isn't a factor when I'm attracted to someone.

— Rowan (he/they/vae)

Our new girlflux and boyflux symbols were made to represent multiple stages of being genderflux (boy/girl, demiboy/demigirl, and agender) by including parts of those gender’s symbols in these. We made them because we felt that the current symbols only represent the binary stage of being girlflux or boyflux.

Girlflux (two versions for light and dark mode):

Boyflux (two versions for light and dark mode):

Okay so

I think I'm girlfluxid

But

Im asking anyway

So

I tend to be pretty female

But I've fluctuated to agender/paragirl/demigirl/etc before

But also apagender and nonbinary

So

Is this just genderflux, or is it fluidflux?

So one of my OCs has DID (dissociative identity disorder) and has 5 confirmed personalities, and she changes her personality based on things that happen to her. She has DID because of her severe trauma.

1. My OC (the main one who controls her body): She is bisexual and grey-aroace, with a preference for girls. And she doesn't care about her pronouns and uses all/any. Non-binary, but has a very fluid way of presenting themself, mainly andro, but likes dresses and acting like a boy. 18 years old.

2. Fry: She shifts to Fry when in familial situations, such as cleaning, taking care of children, cooking, etc. Fry is 7 years old. Aroace and agender. Uses she/her pronouns.

3. Vicky: You can tell Vicky is the one taking control of their shared body, as Vicky is sadistic and loves fighting (fighting elegantly; she loves to incorporate ballet into her fighting style); she also talks like a Victorian-era child (so all fancy-like). She is also very obedient and will listen to her father without question. Vicky is 12 years old. Asexual lesbian, agender, squidthing, and thingcenic. Uses she/her, and it/its pronouns (or thing/thing's, or any other dehuman pronouns).

4. Veronika: [I'm still unsure of how she shifts to Veronkia but I want to put it somewhere in the story.] 25 years old. She is cisgender, heterosexual and uses she/her pronouns.

5. Dara: [I'm still unsure of how she shifts to Dara but I want to put it somewhere in the story.] 56 years old. She is cisgender, heterosexual and uses she/her pronouns.

Would this be an accurate depiction of systems and DID? Also, is there any more terminology that I should be aware of? I don't have DID, so I don't want to offend anyone. I can look stuff up wiki's but I kinda understand systems…?

Level 1: Allocishet girl who's a /little/ to into queer stuff, she/her [deadname]/Moth or just [deadname]

Level 2: Genderfluid, enby, allo, she/her, Moth

Level 3: Genderfluid, enby, allo, they/them, Moth

Level 4: [all my identities], she/her, moth

Level 5: [all my identities], prnfluid, Moth

Level 6: [all my identities], prnsfluid, [all my names]

Level X: Girlflux, allo, she/her [deadname]/Moth

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1 is for church people and teachers (and some classmates), and really anyone i haven't come out to

2 is for people i've come out to but don't ask about prns/i don't tell them about prns

3 is for that one classmate i've officially come out to

4 is for people i'm open with but still use she/her

5 is for my best friend

6 is for da internet

X is for my parents and friends i'm not sure are friends anymore

-Moth, they/them

I found out what girlfluid is and I like it more than girlflux...

I just got done coming out

Ugh!

-Moth, any exipronouns

Hey guys, L is gonna join the wiki, she's bi, introduce yourselves and your identities!

If you didn't know from me already telling you this, I go by Sophie/Moth, and I'm girlflux, enboyspike, sapphic, unlabled, and pronounfluid!

EDIT: Nvm I forgot about the few days rule

-Moth, she/vi

Hi! Thought I'd jump on the bandwagon

So, there's A LOT I need to tell my parents. They know I'm girlflux and...that's it

They don't know I'm going by Moth (i'm also fine with my birth name, I prefer Moth tho). They don't know I'm enboyspike. They don't know I'm pronounfluid, they think I ALWAYS go by she/they. (I'm scared to tell them about this one because my dad doesn't like neos) They don't know that I have dysphoria either.

It's exhausting because, even though I'm out to them, it still feels like they think I'm cis.

(Looking for advice AND sympathy/empathy)

-Moth, no prns (because i'm to tired to figure out which ones i like atm)

Ok so, can someone be Agender and another gender?

(For example , can someone be both Agender and girlflux)

SO

I've talked abt my Lesbian/Girlflux friend before right? Well, she's now just questioning. BUT, she is "more queer" in a way (i suck at english sorry)

-SHE/THEY PRONOUNS- HOW DID I NEVER KNOW? (They preferred)

-AN AGENDER SIBLING WITH NEOPRONOUNS. (Xey/Xem)

FINALLY SOMEONE I CAN RELATE TO

Oh btw while discussing their sister, some random guy hated the thought of neopronouns >:(

I don't really have dysphoria, probably because i'm afab and girlflux, or because i haven't gone through all of puberty yet.

But this might count? Some days (mostly on days where i feel more feminine, for some reason), when I take my shirt off, I'm...repulsed by my boobs, and I have to turn my back to the mirror, and other days (mostly agender days), I'm 100% fine with my breasts, and I sometimes embrace them?

I don't know if this is just me, but i'd thought i share

-Moth, she/they

So for enboyspike (I think i wrote that correctly) I could be girlflux most of the time, then occasionally feel like an enboy? Also, is there a version of this for other genders?

I just came out as girlflux, and now, suddenly, I feel masc and stuff, and I can't get out of this mode. I don't know what to do, or what i AM because i just finished figuring out my identity, and now this decides to hit me in the head...

Any thoughts?

2023 some month: Saw queer vid about how cis people haven't unpacked their gender and thought that maybe I should unpack it

Few months later

2023 June: Dang it, I'm not a cis girl

2023 June: Maybe i'm a neogirl

2023 July: Nope, girlflux

2023 August: Time to come out!

2023 August: Finally feels comfortable in identity

2023 August: Feels like a boy one day

2023 August: Time to figure out my gender!