Questioning

People describe gender as a feeling but, i just can’t grasp what that feeling is. I keep trying to find an emotion feeling that is like/similar to happiness, anger, sadness, but i just don’t know exactly what I am looking for and there is absolutely no straight answer I can get at all to what gender feels like. I don’t know how femininity is “supposed” to feel like, I don’t know how masculinity is “supposed” to feel like, and I don’t know how other is “supposed” to feel like. No i’m not agender necessarily (maybe). I’m comfortable with my sex, im comfortable with my pronouns given so I have no clue on why the fuck i’m trying to figure such a thing out. Maybe it’s seeing so much about it? My friends talking about their gender and what not? I don’t know and I don’t know why I am even trying

I haven't talked to any of my friends about this. My gender has recently been confusing me. I'm AFAB but for the past years I've been calling myself a boy (but have always been kind of both feminine and masculine in gender expression) and all my friends have been too, using pronouns like he/him (I also use xe/xem.) But for some reason, out of nowhere, I feel like a girl too? Yet, I still feel comfortable identifying as a man, which is confusing for me. Sometimes I feel okay with the sex characteristics but other times I hate them. Whenever I research bigender or genderfluid labels I feel like they don't really appeal to me as much? If able to please help.

Alright so.

My name is X/Void/Dt. Void. I am an alter of an osdd-1b system, fictive of Detective Void from SCP.

I have been having a lot of confusions about my gender recently.

Not only gender, but also pronouns! Just everything about myself is really confusing. I figured out I am Uranic but nothing else besides that.

For more info, our body is a female, and I have male genitals at the headspace.

I do feel really masculine at times, but I do not people to call me a "boy" or a "man". I also dont feel comfortable being called a "Girl" either. And it makes me feel just "no" when people put me under the non-binary category. All I know is I am masculine. There are times when I feel like a girl but that might be just the impact of our body gender. I do not have any more stuff to say about this but help would be appreciated!

Unsure whether i'm paraboy, demiboy, or something else. Usually I feel like 55 to 70% masc and 30 to 45% enby, and i use masc terms most of the time, but i still like wearing feminine clothes, sometimes use feminine pronouns, and sometimes just. feel feminine. Never quite "girl" or "guy" though.

I dont feel like I have a gender or any role in the binary spectrum.

I was thinking about the agender or non binary spectrum because of the way i feel and act around my friends.

Hi! Since a few days I've been questioning my gender once again, for the same problem. I'm AFAB and I mostly feel comfortable with being a girl, even tho I still know I have a part of me that is non-binary. I've been identifying as a neogirl for some months. The thing is that I think I really like that term but it is not really known by people. And I also think maybe it's not for me and I'm using the wrong label? I'm stuck with that and at the same time I like the demigirl term? I've been thinking of paragirl, but the thing is that I don't feel any connection with it. I also looked for girlflux because one other thing is when I feel more like a girl and see a person that is nb, I will tend to that, and when I feel more girl-nb and see a person that identifies as a girl I will tell myself to stop and just being a girl, you know it's always like that. I think that's not really being flux but more like I'm questioning and scared of what people will think of me. I like being seen as a girl and being called as one, but I also have that nb part that I don't want to erase.

I'm also really feminine and use she/her prounons even if I hesitate with she/they

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Ok so, basically I keep going back and forth, back and forth, back and forth until I settle with something for a month. But my personality or the way i feel Is feminine (I have tried being trans before but I still didn't feel right.) I was thinking gender I was thinking genderfaun but i still don't know.

I am a Bi-Oriontated AroAce (Aromatic, Apothisexual, and happy to date most genders)

Emotions aren't really my thing, and I don't know how to know what my gender is.

I'm fine with Feministic and Neutral pronouns.

I don't like wearing skirts or dresses, ear piercings (or any piercings) will never happen but necklaces are fine, make-up isn't necessary in my life, same with nail polish, and I prefer masculine and neutral roles/jobs then feminine ones. But then sometimes (rarely) I want to be the stereotypical female; skirt, necklace, long painted nails, and earrings. (Not in public though cuz social anxiety exists)

I don't know if I'm just a Tomboy or a Demigirl, or something else.

I think I’m non-binary but I don’t like that term. Can I just use term transgender?

So I'm putting a lot of thought into me being genderfluid. Genderfluid is more accurate in describing me. But on the other hand I'm already out as non binary which is confusing for many people and I really don't want to come out again. I'm also just not really vibing with the non binary term.

One reason why I feel like the non binary term just didn't appeal to me is because I jumped into it way too fast (if that makes sense). Like in the span of 3 months I got my hair cut and came out. I guess I don't want a repeat but I'm not known for taking things slow.

I want things to happen over like a few years but I don't know how to make that happen.

Another thing that bothers me is I stick with a term for a couple weeks and then I find a "better" one (if you know me from the previous wiki, this has happened A LOT).

And this is just a repeat.

I really just wanna stick with one but NO. I just HAVE to question myself every single time.

This is all over the place but I really need some guidance my research has only made me more confused with myself.

I'm wondering what the difference between Guyflux and Genderfaun is? I identify as Guyflux and am wondering if I'm actually Genderfaun.

I identify as nonbinary and transmasc, but I sometimes want to look feminine. Does it matter? Does it mean that I’m not transmasc?

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I'm AFAB but I've never felt like a girl. I've identified as transmasculine for a long time now, but I've felt comfort in being referred to in gender neutral terms and masculine terms. I just want to know if it's okay to identify as transmasc but also use gender neutral terms along with masculine ones. If it's not okay, what should I identify as? I don't know if this makes any sense, but I've been questioning this for so long and I need help.

Hey guys! I'm new here, but uh- I have a question ^^"

So, i get very easily confused and dysphoric when it comes to my gender, because i can't identify it! Currently, i'm a non-binary transmasc person who could also fit in the xenogender category (maybe?), but i've been changing it since i was 12- genderfluid, and then trans man, androgyne, demiflux, demiboy and a couple of others..-

Anyways, i'll try to explain how i feel and stuff, and hopefully someone here can help me out..?

I was born a girl, i do not like being considered a girl because it makes me feel uncomfortable, i preffer masculine pronouns and *kinda* wanna be considered a boy, but i really like using feminine clothes (masculine too but mostly feminine) because it makes me feel pretty, however, i do not fully identify *entirely* as a man, sometimes i do wish i was born one but i do not plan on getting bottom surgery.

So, is there any gender that could fit? or am i fine with non-binary transmasculine??

Aaaaa I'm so sorry for wasting y'all's time. ;-; but uh, I've noticed I tend to experience different genders in blocks of time instead of daily or weekly? Like, I tend to go multiple months/weeks and even sometimes years feeling one gender. Then abruptly that'll switch to another gender. I'm so confused hhh. anyone have any insight..?

Aaaaaa why is this so confusing :c So, most of the time (atleast since I've started delving into gender) I don't ever experience fully being male or female. For example, today I felt fairly Demiboy, maybe leaning a little more agender/androgynous. While I'm identifying as Librafluid rn, I'm unsure if it fits anymore. Much as I used to feel my gender was foggy it feels less foggy now if that makes sense? I also was very content on being female which might just be what happens before realizing you're not cis (I'm afab). I did have a couple months or something when I was little where I really wanted to be a boy and dress like a boy so idk. Basically what I'm trying to get at is would all this count as Genderfluid?

My gender also seems to be affected by both online influences and also if I look masc or fem or somethin by accident that moment it seems to affect things. Idk if that's actually a gender thing or if I'm just easily influenced-

Ok so- I need help. I alredy use the transmasc label and I feel comfortable with labeling myself with that but in general, i dont really know my gender. I know is masculine in someway, but is kinda enby at the same time and i am confused. I used to thing i was demifluid, but then the label stopped fitting because i always feel kinda masculine. Then i tried demiboy but no. Xoy and enboy also dont fit. I think i am a paraboy but it still dosent convince me. I think my gender is mostly masc but with a little of enbyness.

So yeah

Sooo i feel connected to the term genderfluid a LOT, but i also feel attached to boyflux on a higher level

Am i able to be both at the same time since boyflux is sort of a term under the "umbrella" that is genderfluid or can i only be genderfluid since i don't only feel masc/androgy? /genq

If there's a term for this please let me know!