Rosboy

Warning: Bright colors

"And then I went to math and Finn was there so he help tutor me and it was awesome and-"

"Yeah yeah, Jasper. Breathe."

Jasper (left):

Femboy + Rosboy

Bisexual Biromantic

He/they/hx

17 (The younger one by 3 and a half minutes)

Kayla (right):

Tomboy + Azurgirl

Asexual Omniromantic

She/it

17 (The older one by 3 and a half minutes)

Ask them things

Headcanon them

Do whatever you want lol I just wanted to share them

******[I can't find a way to make this sound not transphobic. So just know that I am //not// being transphobic; I'm just trying to specify what I'm experiencing in terms of "adult attraction" (since I know most of you guys are under 18...)]******

CW: Caps, mention of male and female genitalia (nothing graphic), Generalizations

I'm a lot happier thinking of myself as a boy because I am a boy (AFAB). I've always been a boy. It's just that the outside doesn't show what the inside is. What I am is a boy who is gender neutral and occasionally feels like a girl who is attracted to both boys and girls and everyone else, but is mostly satisfied with fantasies and doesn't always 100% of the time actually want to date anybody, but occasionally I have a super intense and depressing longing for a romantic companionship with somebody.

Damn, if I wasn't multisexual, then I would actually consider myself straight, meaning that I am attracted to girls. The first time I've ever actually considered myself as that. I don't know why today I just feel very aligned with being a male.

You know what? I'm also actually incredibly gay. Like [male genitalia]! But [female genitalia]! Both are so good and amazing, and I want both! I don't care what their internal sense of identity is; you either have a [male genitalia] or a [female genitalia], no one between (disregarding intersex because that’s usually a chromosome or hormone thing). It doesn't matter if you were born with it or not. I do not care. If you have a [male genitalia] or a [female genitalia], then there is a HIGH likelihood that I will be attracted to you.

Like, obviously, I care for, respect, and love somebody's gender identity, regardless of what it is. I'm not a jerk.

But when it comes to romantic attraction, if I find a person's physical attributes attractive (aesthetic attraction), which is usually regardless of their gender identity, then I am attracted to them romantically, but in regards to sexual attraction, I am attracted to literally ANYBODY (ANY GENDER) who has male or female genitalia. This includes LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING ON THIS PLANET!

I'm not saying that someone's gender identity isn't valid; I'm just saying it isn't a factor when I'm attracted to someone.

— Rowan (he/they/vae)

It's 1 in the morning, and dysphoria hates me, so you get to hear me rant about being feminine and how it's ruining my gender and thus my life.

TW: Dysphoria, caps

I wish I was AMAB so I could be a femboy. I want to be a femboy so BAD all of a sudden for no reason at all! Being a femboy just randomly popped into my head when I thought of myself and how I am a man, but wish to dress femininely.

Like I genuinely wish I looked like this one femboy I found online! The skinniness! The hair! The face shape! Just everything about this femboy is absolutely absolutely perfect, except that I like my boobs and don't wish to get top surgery!

I just feel so… validated and seen right now. Is this what I am? Is this who I really am? A person who has a masculine gender identity, but who chooses to present themselves femininely?

Maybe I'm luneboy.

Or maybe I'm just a femboy.

It feels like I have 2 forms: (there are 2 wolves inside you) tomboy and femboy… maybe I'm bigender, as sometimes it happens at the same time.

Feeling feminine is giving me gender euphoria instead of gender dysphoria like normal. But it's femininity in the way that boys are feminine, NOT in the way girls are feminine.

I feel a lot happier now! Ever since considering myself as a femboy it feels like something in my brain just clicked into place! It just feels so peaceful, ethereal, light, and just oh so amazing!

I want to be a goth/emo femboy!

I honestly hate how I look IRL. I just absolutely hate my appearance. But it's so hard to change, especially with how busy I am with everything going on IRL in my life right now.

IDK. Saying I'm a femboy brings me more gender euphoria.

I guess rosboy fits me more definition wise. I am a man who is feminine in appearance.

IDK what I want to look like. Feminine yes, but also masculine… I want to be a femboy and a tomboy at the same time. I'm not sure what to do… Is this a gender shift? Am I genderfluid?

I need to be punk! But I also want to be soft looking and wearing lots of pink!

I am much happier believing myself to be a feminine guy rather than a feminine girl.

Sometimes I feel like a masculine girl, feminine girl, a feminine boy, masculine guy, gender neutral, nothing at all, both a girl and a boy at the same time.

What label feels *right* to me?

Everything… and nothing all at the same time.

Well, I'm not a full man or woman, I'm kinda nothing, but also very feminine in the same way men are feminine in a girl way. I want my body to be that of a male (AMAB, cis man, whatever you want to call it) and I wish to be feminine in my gender presentation. I like everybody regardless of everything. If I find you attractive, which I most likely will, then I'm attracted to you, simple as that. I'm repulsed by the idea of personally engaging in sexual and romantic activity and having someone else sexually attracted to me (not romantically attracted to me, I'm more okay with that, but it's still pretty unwanted).

Rosboy, panromantic, and asexual?

Maybe my gender isn't anything related to being a girl and I just mixed up gender identity and gender presentation.

Why can't I be a feminine man? Nothing is saying I can't be but some mental block inside myself.

Am I actually non-binary or do I just like that word? How do I actually feel?

I can easily call myself lesbian, but I can never call myself even though I feel like a man no matter what I do I always have a female body. Again, it's some kind of mental block.

Whenever I consider calling myself demiboy, I feel… special? Why special? I've also considered this label many times, but not as many times as non-binary.

Genderfluid and pan? Non-binary and bi? Rosboy, panromantic, and aegosexual?

WHY IS IDENTITY SO HARD!?!??!?!?!?!

I'm a very truthful person, so lying about my identity and pretending to be something I'm not is not something I'm interested in, so I guess that's another reason why I want to find the perfect labels so bad.

Why is it so hard to accept my labels as me? I guess I do have internalized queerphobia but only towards myself. Other people are vibe so I don't care what they do or identify as.

Am I really he/she, or am I they/them, she/they, he/they? Expressing my thoughts through pronouns is a little easier than with words. She = woman, he = man, they = non-binary.

[rant over… for now at least]

— Rowan (they/them)

Demipangender, demigirl, touch of rosboy, touch of azuragirl

-moth, no prns

Behind the scenes (right to left):

(4th flag I've made this weekend lol)

Level 1: pan(sexual) (she/they)

Level 2: pan(sexual) and genderfluid (she/they)

Level 3: pan(sexual) and genderfluid (all pronouns)

Level 4: pan(romantic) genderfluid and ace (all pronouns)

Level 5: pan(romantic)flux genderfluid aceflux and transmasc (all pronouns, pronounflux)

Level 5: pan(romantic)flux rosboyfluix aceflux and transmasc (all pronouns, pronounflux)

Level 1 is just general knowledge and I'm 100% out as pan and using she/they pronouns (tho most people use mostly she/her ;-;)

Level 2 is a few friends

Level 3 is like 1 person

Level 4 is my sibling

Level 5 is my partner

Level 6 is the Internet (idrc if my partner knows about these btw I just have no reason to explain every small detail)

That Stella from Spiritfarer is an aroace enby rosboy

https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1727751/

Technically this goes in general

For context I'm rosboyfluix. So think of how rosboy is like feminine boy, since both the femininity and boyness/masculinity demand to be affirmed.

• I have shorter hair but I need to keep it kinda long at some part so the feminine part of my gender doesn't get mad.

• I wear baggier clothes to hide the feminine parts of my figure

• Ripped jeans. They make gender happy.

• (Planning on trying to train my voice to get deeper)

Once I started dressing more masculine, the feminine part of my gender became more demanding so I had to please it.

• I never priced my ears back when I thought I was a girl. (Fear of knives/needles that isn't as bad anymore but is still there).

• Painting my nails makes me euphoric and I really need to redo them. All the remaining polish could fit on my pinky nail.

• I like fem things like dresses and nail polish in black. It's just what the 2 parts of my gender agreed on ig. (Me wearing dresses is rarely like schools dances and Halloween)

In the future, I, also, plan on top surgery. Even when I want to look more fem, I don't really like my chest that much.

Hehe gender. I'm no longer genderfaunet. I was wrong.

Gender now since I cleaned it out:

• Genderfluid

• Genderqueer

• Transmasc

• Rosboy

• Genderfluix/fluidflux

• Genderflux

• Rosboyfluid

• Rosboyfluix

Of a gender is in italics it just means it's a combo of some of the ones already listed

Attraction:

Pan

Pan Ace

Panro ace omniplatonic

Panroflux aceflux Biflux? Omniplayonic

Gender:

Genderfluid

*Long journey or experimenting with labels*

Genderfluid genderfaunet girlspike genderflux rosboy transmasc (also more labels that are combos of those labels)

Alterhunanity:

Water elf

Water elf fairy

Water spirit (elf? fairy)

Water elf fairy spirit shapeshifter

Magic water elf fairy spirit shapeshifter demon thing

Adrian/Skylar

All pronouns

Genderfaunet, transmasc, rosboy, girlspike, genderflux

Panromanticflux

Aceflux

Pronounflux

Nameflux

My old one has gotten outdated by a lot. I have more gender than I remembered and I'm a fluctuating mess.

I only got around to this of making a post on another wiki and copy and paste is easy... (https://queerexperience.fandom.com/f/p/4400000000000078349)

I think I'm girlspike because I have spikes of feeling like a girl sometimes. It usually happens when I wear black dresses cuz mutogender.

(I was doubting my identity as genderfaunet until I remembered the existence of girlspike tbh.)

Me before and after my genderfluid messness:

My oc before and after transitioning:

Btw my of us Max (he/they) and my other oc (Luna)'s brother.

Does anyone have anything good they can do? I don't have good flag ideas.

What if I became a YouTuber and never told anyone my gender or pronouns at first. Like I left it up to them to assume. Then I'd get to randomly get to see people argue about it in the comments like.

"This is my favorite one of her videos"

"Uh. Skylar is a dude."

"I thought they were non-binary"

Then one day I tell my followers to guess my gender in the comments and then finally reveal it. They probably won't guess it exactly cuz I'm a complex mess.

I wanna watch my imaginary future subscribers argue about my gender.

-Adrian/Skylar (all pronouns)

Can someone make a azurgirl version of rosboyfluid and fluix if they haven’t?