Transfeminine

Is it valid to be trans but never want to transition? Since gender identity is different from expression, but some trans people intertwine them with FtM, MtF, or whatever? /genq

SW: bold, italics

Im AFAB and identify as Gxnderflxid and Transmasc. When i feel more feminine sometimes i feel like a girl or fiaspec genders but most of the time i feel like im a boy trying to be feminine.

Like, when i feel feminine i dont feel cis, i feel transfeminine because ive transitioned to being mostly a male?

I feel rude saying it because i feel like its invalidating to transfeminine people.

Also i was kinda trying to explain this to my partner. he doesnt understand how i can identify as a femboy (i dont normaly but again, genderfluid) when im AFAB he says "well wouldn't you just.. be a girl then?"

he's not trying to be mean he just genuinley doesnt understand. I tried discussing it with him but im not sure if he really understood.

can someone try explaining how a transmasc can be a femboy?

(^ sorry for bad wording. Basically fandom thought it was a good idea to lock me out and I couldn’t get my account back)

Am I the only one here who thinks transmasc ≠ ftm and transfem ≠ mtf?

TW: light-hearted insults, siblings bickering, transphobia?

Backstory: My brother and I get into fights all the time. We’re siblings; that's just what we do.

I thought that my brother needing plastic surgery would be a funny insult. So I asked my mom if she would be cool if we, her children (/unfortunately/), got plastic surgery. Mom said it’s our bodies, and it doesn’t matter what we do with them. So she said we could get plastic surgery if we wanted to. I then asked if I could get a tattoo, and she said the one I wanted was stupid. I said that was the point. It was meant to be so dumb it’s funny. She then said the same thing: It’s our body that doesn't hurt her or anyone else, so who cares?

I bet you once we go on HRT, she’s going to get mad!

I live by this when it comes to LGBTQIA+, back when I thought I was simply an ally. I lived by the mantra, “If it doesn’t hurt anyone, who cares?.”. It’s their choice—their body, not mine; therefore, I have no say in it. I think I have that mindset with everything. Which can cause me to be a laid-back, open-minded person most of the time. I mean, it’s obviously a problem, and my problem, if they're only doing it to be creepy/gross, but I’ve never met anyone who has done that, or have ever met someone who has had that happen to them. So it’s pretty chill right now.

TW: caps, biological sex, gender identity, mention of traditional binary views, reference to intersex variations,

I love genetics. I don't know why it's fun, but it is. I’m reading the Sex Determinism part of my Bio class, and I hate it because it's only talking about AMAB men and AFAB women.

I hate when people say there are only two sexes; there aren’t. There are an infinite number of genders, as it is an identity and not based on biology, and there are 3 sexes: male (XY), female (XX), and intersex (XXY, XYY, XXX, XO).

When I become a doctor, which has been a dream of mine since I was little, I will listen to people when it comes to their gender identity or intersex traits.

What do you think? Am I right in thinking there are three sexes and an infinite number of genders?

I'm bigender, and identify strongly with being both a boy and a girl. In other words, I strongly relate to transmasculine and transfeminine experiences. I feel like this label suits me well. Only thing is, I'm not intersex and was assigned female at birth. Do transmascfem people have to be intersex?

TW: mild caps, mind/social dysphoria

I read a The Owl House comic about a girl coming out to her mom after her mom smiles at Luz and Amity holding hands, and now I feel horrible and scared. Like what if my family finds out I’m omni and aro? Would they accept me? Would they hurt me? Send me away? Abandon me? Mom said she would support all her kids if they ever came out. Around 2 or so years ago, I asked if she would support my brother if he was a trans woman, and she said she would if that’s what he wanted. And I hinted at, asking if she would support me if I was bisexual, and she said she would. But in the days following, she would yell at us for talking about anything LGBTQIA+. I don’t think I ever want to come out to her. And NEVER to the rest of my family.

So when I went back to school this year after realizing I was genderfluid and transmasc, I started getting pretty dysphoric at school. So I decided to go eat lunch with the boys instead of the girls I normally ate with.

Fast forward 2 weeks, everything's a lot better, I've been hanging out with the boys for a while now. they actually view me as one of them, it's so euphoric, but really i'm kinda staying for this one person now, who I have a weird personal history with and want to be with /a lot/

So here I am, really glad that I get to hang out with this boy and spend time with- *they come out as transfem*

Me: "wait but I was being around you for gender euphoria!!! give me my euphoria back!!!"

Her: "noooo give it to meeee"

So yeah, we're the only out trans kids in the whole school

And I have a really big alterous crush on them now

That was my story, thanks for listening folks

-astoria, they/them

I'll make her zucchini in a bit, I have an order to do

-Ghost, they/them

/npa /lh, contains bold and italics : if i'm missing anything please tell me and i'll edit it

hello. hi. this account was created for the purpose of anonymity, as i didn't want this to be public information for those who know me and follow my wiki account – especially if they're someone who i know IRL. this is personal and private for now, and it'll be for a long time. the only reason i'm stating this is because this is the internet, and someone will try to find out who this account is because they might think i'm sockpuppeting or something. which, in that scenario, fine, but just don't share anything publicly.

i also realize and recognize that a gender wiki on fandom is far from the best place to be asking these questions. but, it's the easiest, and this site does host one of the largest collections of genders on the internet ever.

so i'm non-binary! yay! :3

for the context of this post, i'm going to have to also say i'm AMAB.

i don't feel like a girl. i'm not a girl. and if i am, it would only be in a way connected to my transness if that makes any sense.

i do want to be feminine, though. i'm still non-binary, and demigirl or anything along those lines doesn't fit either; that's a non-binary girl, not girl non-binary.

i feel like this could be explained through just wanting to not be a boy – anything outside of the gender binary isn't fully understood by society, and so being a girl seems like the next best option. but it's still real.

like, if you used she/her pronouns on me, i might be a bit confused and ask you to use they/them but it'd be fine. in contrast, if you used he/him, that would invoke much more of a reaction from me.

and i realize that pronouns aren't gender, neither is gender expression, or any of that, but it still ties into gender for me. i want to look feminine but i'm not a girl. i want to be realized as separate from masculinity and men and boys, but i do not relate to womanhood.

non-binary has worked fine for me until i've realized that androgyny still means masculine, at least to me. i just want non-binary to not still mean that.

again. this isn't demigirl, or any of that labels' friends. i'm still not a girl, but i want to be feminine; i'd much rather be lined with the girls during PE class.

the thought of me being a girl does invoke euphoria though, but again, even if i was a girl, it would be in a way that couldn't be fully explained without the experience of transness. not a girl as in happy, but not a boy as in 'screw you.'

is there anything that fits this? labels are important to me. thank you so much for reading this and caring! <3

-anon

TW: Murder

So from what I could remember the details were that I was a girl, and I also had a girlfriend. I also was a detective sent to investigate some murders, I don't remember much about the first one but I caught the person responsible. The second murder involved drowning and I just ran into the killer when it ended. I kinda had a sad realization that I was a guy when it ended, so naturally I tried to go back to sleep, I did manage to continue the dream for a little bit but I forget what happened. I just thought it was strange, I have never had a dream where I was a girl before. I felt nice when I looked in the mirror and saw I was a girl, it was strangely comforting like a weight had been taken off my shoulders. I actually had some dysphoria last night before I went to sleep too. I am honestly open to the possibility of me being trans fem now. But I am relatively sure I am still genderfluid but things could change and I am more ok with that now.

Good morning, everyone! So, I have found one picture when I was at the Doll Eye wiki site…and the picture looks like this:

Yeah, I’m always a BIG fan of the game…and this is why I’m showing this to make you feel excited for it! This art does not belong to me…but it belongs to my favorite artist, TWISTED-DOCTOR! ✨🌟😁🌟✨

Okay, here are the five characters for examples in this picture:

• Dr. Mystery Burns: This character is genderfluid and pansexual, and they use he/she/they pronouns.

• Pastery Burns: This character is a 22-year-old counterpart of Dr. Mystery who is transfeminine/non-binary and pansexual, and they use she/they pronouns.

• Peter Peterson: This character is transgender and bisexual, and he uses he/him pronouns.

• Yello Dubbleyu: This character is non-binary, and they use they/them pronouns.

• Ben Wurst: This character is transgender, and he uses he/him pronouns.

I hope you guys will understand their gender, their sexuality, and their pronouns, because I know them well! ✨💕🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈😉👍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💕✨

Is there a term for being transmasc and transfem, transfem and transneuteral, etc. but not as a intersex exclusive identity? Not saying I identify with any of that or anything but

Well, for me, today is the last day of June. I drew this yesterday. It's characters from Prosper Redding and my headcanons for them.

Left to right, top to bottom: Zachariah, Alastor and Prosper, Flora, Pyra, Nell

<3 happy Pride

Remember, pride month is every month >:D

I saw Aiden and Bo discussing about changing the transmasc and transfem pages to include cases like AFAB demigirls and AMAB demiboys.

So would it be insulting for trans people if I labelled myself as transfem, as a girlflux individual ?

Genuine question, that's just to know how broad it can be.

I feel no real connection with this term and therefore won't use it, I prefer demicis or sensgender (I think of using sensneutral, but I’m looking for something more agender since I experience more of an agender dysphoria, though sensgender already fits perfectly)

-Neo [she/her + neutral]

Original (already existed)

Symbol (I think this might be the main flag now)

Flyfaric girl/ fem aligned

Flyfaric boy/masc aligned

Flyfaric enby/neutral aligned

Fem & masc flyfaric/ bigender flyfaric/androgyne flyfaric

What stuff represents:

Heart: positivity

Color in heart: gender alignment

I want to edit these in. I'll do it today or tomorrow or a combination of both. (Probably the last one)