Transgender

Transgender myths and stereotypes I dont like:

• Every strong, deep voiced or muscular woman is trans

• Tans men are always short

• Trans people are always homosexual/romantic and cannot be straight

• Transmasc people are feminine or twinks or whatever

• "People can tell that you aren't a ___"

• "They can't be trans, they look cis!"

• Trans people want to be trans

• Trans people simply existing means they are out to get your children

• God does not love trans people (he does, suck it up)

• Young children should be taught about transgender (js not yet imo, let them learn abt it when they're older)

They make no sense!

I am demifluxgirl (-agender, born girl) so I am non binary and trans BUT I don't feel trans. But I feel non binary. Can I be demifluxgirl but not being trans ?

My name is Charlie(in a feminine way)

I like to read,

Play bass, tuba, and trombone,

play video games(like Minecraft and PvZ Garden Warfare),

and be tired perpetually.

My pronouns are she/her

So... Basically, I came here because I've had mixed answers on this question.. I was AFAB, but I don't feel like a full woman, if that makes sense.. So, I did some research, and found that the identities 'Neoboy' 'Transgender/Trans-masc' and 'Censari' fit me nearly perfectly... but I don't know if I'd be able to use all the terms above, or if that would seem invalid..

Could someone please clear this up for me, or at least explain it better to me?

So I was a little bit confused. What does it mean to be born a gender? And what does it mean it really feel that gender? How is that determined? Is that genetically based like genes in your brain that make you a gender? Also, does sex impact gender, like some people accept their sex as their gender instead of trying to let the brain decide, or is it the brain deciding it likes the biological sex?

Basically, if your sex in genetics is 50/50, does that make you wanting a be a gender also based on probability and not choice?

I've looked around the pronouns wiki and can't really find any I like.

So I'm just looking for some suggestions based on my OC (I'm just using they/them as a placeholder here):

• Muslim

• Female to Non-binary

• Had top surgery

• Is hetero, but has a very "OMG they were roommates" relationship with [their] female best friend

• Ran away to live in a crappy little house with said best friend

• Has a very punk or emo-like style

• Conservative, but very LGBTQIA+ friendly

• Nearsighted

• Was kicked out by [their] parents for being a delinquent/bad kid/whatever you want to call it

• Straight A+ student, despite being in the wrong crowd so to say [they] still greatly value knowledge and school and all of that stuff

I'm just looking for some very 'punk' pronouns, anything that gives off alternative/emo/punk/grunge vibes would be great. Thank you in advance!

@SOUP-AAAAAAH 's post made me think i wanted to make a post like theres and i belive a day has passed and this thought came in my head:Question's:

Being masculine or femine how do you feel with that idenity

What makes you euphoric by being femine or masculine

How did you figure out you were masculine or femine

[same question as ^]did you think you werent femine or masculine during your serch?

What makes you dysphroic by wanting or being femine or masculine[kinda like one was oppiste gender of there asigned birth]

Cisgender people: have you ever doubted your gender?

What makes you happy in your body

Do you ever think of being a diffrent gender

Why i ask these questions[if your wondering]i thought about my genderless idenity and aspect of feminity but no binary feeling[or no joy in being femine just a lack of feeling] and how i idenitify as my gender at brith[AFB] but feel no connectiong to feminity,i have joy in my body part of being female but its only one joy not all of my female body parts[if that makes sense] ive had no feelings of binary genders i've tried but never felt like it fit agender or genderless feels right for me so! i want to hear you guys^^ of course you don't have to answer all.thank you for reading and or answering my questions

[you can also talk/answer questions about other idenities i'm open ears i love gender identies and learning about them]

Pronoun's: They/Them

Trans Man Trans Woman: A flag for anyone who identifies as both a trans man and a trans woman. Could also be a different transfemmasc/transmascfem flag I don’t really care.

I don’t remember if I already posted this but whatever.

My tumblr coining

Also I should specify this isn’t a new coin. I coined this on June 7th 2024.

Transfem Transman: Any trans man who is also transfem.

Transmasc Transwoman: Any trans woman who is also transmasc.

These terms are not exclusive to intersex. Could be a specific subsets of transfemmasc, doesn’t have to be though.

No coining post listed because I haven’t posted it yet. Originally coined March 2nd.

If there is a people assigned female at birth who identify as demifluxgirl (girl and agender in the case of my friend), Is this person considered trans?

(tw: caps)

IVE JUST BEEN FTM THIS ENTIRE TIME??? HDJDKDNSKFNFK

I WAS NEVER GENDERFLUID AND IM JUST GENDERFLUX AND TRANS???

HUHUHUHUHUHUH

So yeah, i guess im trans wowee

Boyflux to be more specific

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Hey guys I'm feeling too much like a girl today ugh

My brain is saying ur cis ur cis... Could someone tell me if these experiences are cis?

I look into the mirror, and I want. to. cut. my. hair. more. than. anything. but I'm too nervous

I shove my hair (I have really long hair) in my hat because I don't want it to show, even if I guess it looks fine

I try to pass when I go to the store or something, and I wear baggy clothes literally everyday to try to hide myself

I really want a binder even if I know I probably don't need one

I wish my shoulders were broader and my hips were smaller and my eyelashes weren't as long (I have long eyelashes and people always point them out 0n0)

I spend a lot of my free time looking at trans reddits and on here, obviously. I also take like are you trans quizzes like everyday

Yesterday I literally went to the boys bathroom at my sisters game, and I always want to go into the boys bathroom tho I'm not out.

_------_ this last one's kind of interesting_------_

I'm a late bloomer and sometimes when I try to look like a boy and I really think I do and I think, 'your face looks more masc, what if your parents found out and secretly put you on T or something" which I know is completely stupid unrealistic and dumb. But the thing is even though I don't really believe it, when I do wonder it I think if they did I probably would't mind I would just wanted them to have told me.

This is all kind of stupid... does anyone have any experience like this

thanks

cade he/ey

Hello :)

Recently I have been struggling on my gender. First, some gender context for you: I am transmasc, boyflux, Rosboy, Xenic, agenderine. Sometimes, I want to be a transboy and think about coming out as that... but then once I start thinking about it, I just kind of break down. I don't even know what being a transitioned boy would really feel like, and I want to be a trans /boy/ but thinking about me as a trans /man/ doesn't make sense in my brain. I just can't picture it...

I've decided I also might be Rosboy, so I dunno if this has anything to do with it but... please help I'm really stuck on this :(((

Ugh bruh this would be so much easier if I were cis...

Cade

He/Ey

P.s. I know what I explained sounds like boyflux but this feels like something different...

So basically, I’m transgender but feel non-binary at the same time. It’s basically like I can choose which one I am and they’re completely seperate.

Is there any gender for this, or am I able to use both labels? I’m confused about it but demiboy doesn’t fit me.

My masculinity is full but I also don’t feel that binary. Any half-masculine half-binaryn’t gender doesn’t seem to fit me..

Does ahnyone ave different ways I can bind without a binder?

I considered sports bras, but my mom told me that I can get really hot in those. The only place I can get anything is Amazon at the moment. I can't get trans tape because I'm not out yet. I thought of minimizer bras or compression bras, but I can't find any good ones that give me the result I want. The only thing I have right now is an old tank top I used for a play once. I can fold it to get my chest a bit smaller. But that's it! What things ywould ou recommend to make my chest smaller?

So spiritboy spiritgirl or spirit whatever suffix you like is a type of transgender where you are the suffix of the gender in spirit, just not physically, it's the same as being someone of that gender the only difference being that you aren't that physically and also very likely don't wish to be. So like being trans but your identity is that you aren't trans physically, just solely in spirit and everything else.

The flag for spirit(gender) is light grey, thin darker grey, the colour used to represent your gender, thin darker grey, light grey.

Here's what that looks like for the spiritboy flag :)

Another gender I am coining here is called cassphysical or cassphys, it's like being cassgender or cassgenital but literally nothing about your physical gender makes any changes to what you identify as being what you feel your gender is, it's like the physical gender/hormones/ect is just kinda there and doesn't have any effect on what your gender is, this could also apply to being a cisgender person who still identifies with the gender they were assigned at birth but their physicality has no effect on what that gender is to them and it comes from solely their identity, not their physicality. Cassphysical based on my experiences is quite euphoric, like that's just how it is my physicality is just there and I'm chill about it, it can also carry over to non-sexual relationships where your partner also doesn't care what you are physically and just about your identity because that's not what they value from relationships. The cassphysical flag is purple, sand, slate, black, and yellow.

This is how that looks :)

Both of these were coined based on personal experiences and are free for use of anyone with similar experiences :D

peace y'all <3

I suffer from gender dysphoria since I was 11, now I'm 18 years old and I still haven't taken hormones, I haven't had surgery and I haven't even changed my name on the certificate, because I live with a transphobic family, they treat trans people as aberration, the only people I came out to and accepted me were my brother and my non binary cousin.

Sometimes I cry when I have to wear a dress or when my family says "but you're a woman, so it's normal to say these things".

I have many masculine characteristics, I even cut my hair and wear looser clothes, but I still get mistaken for a girl when I use the men's bathroom.

I can't take this anymore, I hate to be treated like a girl...I just wanted a word of comfort, because I feel like I'll never be a boy.