All posts by Koolaidaddictedkid

Hii! My name is Aaliyah! I also use the names Valentine and Sakura, but I've mostly gotten used to being called Aaliyah. I use she/her pronouns, and currently identify as girlprince. I'm questioning my sexuality though. I am an alter within a system, specifically a fictive of Sakura Haruno from Naruto (Or the girl on our pfp!) My role is an academic, or an alter that does most of the school work. I love doing school work when I can, I'm especially interested in biology and health science! I adore talking to sourcemates (other fictives of the same source) and making new friends! Feel free to start up any conversation with me!

I look forward to interacting with this wiki more! :-)

~ Aaliyah (she/her), Joseph (they/fir/ve)

okay so, ive been questioning my identity for a bit and i wanted to see if i could put my gender and sexuality into words. this isnt necessarily asking for help to find my identity, but any input is appreciated.

keep in mind that this is about my personal gender and sexuality, we are plural and we do have different gendered alters that does affect how i view my gender and sexuality, but ive been questioning my identity on my own recently.

so at the basis, i am agender and nonbinary. asterfluid ties in these two genders as i am fluid between agender and nonbinary. basically, sometimes i feel like i have no gender and dont want to be perceived as having one and other times i feel like i do have a gender, but its not feminine or masculine. i am also transgender (afab) but i dont like being specific on the aspect because i dont like using the terms transmasc, transfem, and transneu. i also identify as demimasc, but lately ive been reconsidering that. i used to feel a little masculine before, but lately it feels like ive been gravitating more feminine (not fully encompassing womanhood) or just not caring about being seen as fem. today ive been using fem terms and my deadname on myself, my mom even used "ma'am" on me and i didnt get bothered like i would usually do. (i was maybe a little happy that she did that) i know that demifem exists, but i dont feel like that explains how i feel all the way. i think i lean more bigender with it being fluid between girlthing and asterfluid. but im not totally sure.

sexuality wise, i am bit more confused about it more than my gender identity. currently i identify as panromantic, aegosexual, and trixic. but now i feel like trixic doesnt fit me right anymore. i am sexually attracted to exclusively afab people, regardless of their gender. i know gynesexual exists but ive heard that some people consider it transphobic/genitalistic which has scared me away from identifying as it. i also believe i am sexually attracted to women in queer way, like something akin to sapphic, but at the same time, i am romantically attracted to men in a queer way as well. i have a boyfriend that i love in a homosexual way but i feel like its more akin to NBLM (nonbinary love male). meanwhile, i sexually love women in a homosexual way too, but its more akin to WLW. im not sure if theres a term for this, so lmk if there is.

if this is confusing, i can try to elaborate, but this is all very confusing for me too. i drew a small chart of how my gender might work as well.

tw: brief mention of death and gore, stay safe!!

hello again gender wiki!! a lot has changed in my life along with a few gender changes as well. so, ive decided to update yall!

the biggest change in my life is that i have been more accepting of my plurality lately! im not diagnosed or anything but i am getting help for my mental health! ive always knew in the back of my mind that i could be a system but always passed it off as my bpd messing me up, but after a good amount of research, ive decided to not pass my headmates off as delusions and be more welcoming to them! from now on we'll sign our names and pronouns at the bottom of our posts to indicate who we are. (btw! we experience co-fronting a lot so sometimes there will be more than one name on the signature!)

ive also decided to change my secondary name to toby! (in reference to one of my favorite characters in naruto, tobi :3) you can still use steph on me, but i am not as attached to the name as i was! and as for my pronouns and gender, ive stopped using it/its and primarily feel most comfortable with they/them being used on me. ive also adopted more xenogenders and neopronouns such as, scarythingic, deadthing, heavenbeing, gorebeing, ce/cir, hymn/hymns and ve/vem! i have no preference of what neos you use on me! ive also been looking into identifying as cassgender as well because i am indifferent about the concept of gender, nor do i much care about how someone precieves me.

with the help of some headmates and my therapist, im slowly becoming comfortable in my femininity and havent felt dysphoric in while! she/her isn't a preferred pronoun that would want someone to use on me, but i wont get mad if it is used.

i still identify with most of the genders and pronouns in my last intro post so not everything has completely changed!

thanks for reading!! :^)

~ joseph (they/fir/ve)

(sorry for all the coining posts, i am on thanksgiving break and i have gone insane)

coolbreezegender is an identity where one's gender feels like a gentle cool breeze

sunnybreezegender is an identity where one's gender feels like a warm summery day accompanied by a gentle cool breeze

(more of a broad term so once again, lmk if theres smth alrdy like this)

a gender identity where one's gender switches randomly and suddenly off and on, like a light switch.

ex: when one's gender is "off" they could be feeling agender and or neutral identities, and when it's "on" they may feel strongly gendered

(feel free to make a flag)

(dont know if theres alrdy a gender like this but lmk if there is)

a subset of mutogender, where one's gender changes to reflects things that are soft and cute

(feel free to make a flag 4 this)

so hi my name is koolaid but i prefer if you call me joseph or steph

i dont like specifying my age but i am under 16

i am a poc

currently i identify as agender, nonbinary, aegosexual, panromantic, trixic(?), asterfluid & demimasc

main pronouns i use are they/it/he pronouns

neos i also like to use are sun/suns & fir/firs

she/her pronouns are reserved for ppl close to me and i use she/her neutrally and not femininely (i may still get uncomfortable with familiars using she/her tho)

i have mood affecting disorders and also show symptoms of adhd + autism (i have bad memory so reminders are appreciated)

i also have a typing quirk (if you couldnt tell) so i use tone tags to convey tone (tone tags you dont have to use tone tags if your talking with me but i still have trouble understanding tone so it is greatly appreciated)

hyperfixation: naruto (unfortunately)

hobbies: turning fictional characters lgbtq

i am an artist, writer (occasionally) & coder (rarely)

currently learning java along with html (i am suffering)

i use humor and sarcasm a lot but i mostly mean it lightheartedly

listography (my main about me page)

https://listography.com/6267522169

A gender identity in which one's gender is very unfamiliar but still has a strong presence

(dont know if im gonna make a flag for this so feel free to make one)

Is there a xenogener + pangender gender?

4 a oc whose xenogender / neopronouns changes when she interacts w things she loves into said thing (ex: she interacts w a dog, her xenogender becomes pupgender and goes by pup/pupself)

orrr a identity like i just described