All posts by Nicodalotl
Who is coffee man?
@Stellarfeline ...and vice versa.
Tbf, if I looked over someone's shoulder and saw floridgender on someone's computer, I was be so confused.
Fair enough. Just don't go saying that it's horrible and offensive and it makes you hate society.
Also, I looked at your first reply. While I do agree that every group as certain beliefs they need to get over, saying that some people need to get over their conservative beliefs is a very dangerous statement (Not saying it was intentional). It implies that their opinions are not grounded in any modicum of truth or personal experience, their views are wrong, and they must be completely converted. It is also a form of ostracization.
People are allowed to believe in only 2 genders. People are allowed not to believe in queerness, etc. Now, I do agree that they should not harm or insult anyone because of that, but, censorship of opinions is again, very dangerous. Believe it or not, it makes people feel silenced, unworthy, and unable to express their free speech. Especially when they are called horrible, transphobic bigots. Both the left and the right have this problem of demonization. For example, the right is crazy about talking about how ridiculous gender ideology is instead of trying to understand why people come to these conclusions about gender. On the other side, the left loves demonizing parents who don't let their kids transition because they were raised in a world were none of this stuff was very prominent (I don't want you saying "OH BUT THESE CULTURES-", modern transgenderism was not very politically or culturally prominent during the time) and are just trying their best to despite not understanding anything.
All I'm saying is that we shouldn't demonize each other, and that applies to the left too.
In order to have healthy conversations, we need to agree to
I'm not saying it's a goofy, whimsical choice. It is a choice that will make people uncomfortable. But again, it is a fricking 12 year old. You cannot get triggered and say you hate people because a 12 year old wore a politically incorrect and offensive shirt. He is 12 years old, he is not seriously trying to perpetuate discrimination and erase people's identifies and promote intolerance, he is 12 years old. And even if he was, he is a 12 year old boy. As someone who was a 12 year old boy at one point, we make stupid decisions.
Secondly, you cannot say that you hate a 12 year old and that he needs to change his political views because you are objectively right. That is going to make him double down and also makes you all look very oversensitive and immature, especially on YOUTUBE SHORTS!
Thirdly, I literally just made a post about this, but like how the bombardment of conservative messages make a lot LGBTQ individuals feel uncomfortable, the opposite can make people like me, who aren't even on the right, uncomfortable as well. It's a double edged sword.
Just realize that you all look like idiots getting super mad about a 12 year old.
Also you hate 12 year olds?
He's a 12 year old boy. Get over yourselves. Adoloscents do stupid things for attention/cause they feel like it. Respectfully, it's a 12 YEAR OLD ON YOUTUBE SHORTS. It's not even someone you know personally.
Also, who knows, I don't agree with a lot of conservatives, but maybe a shirt saying "Protect Trans KIds" or something would make conservative kids uncomfortable?
Overall, it's just a dumb kid and this could go both ways.
If they were a jerk, it is not your job to affirm them! Like, if they were a terrible person, they should've, I don't know, apologized or at least said acknowledged how sincere you have been to them considering you could've been petty and treated them like crap back. You did nothing wrong.
Also, navigating something new, having a hard time with feelings, and self-discovery do NOT justify how they treated you. Don't give them a get-out-of-jail free card or walk on eggshells around them just because they are trans.
Sorry about that...I've experienced similar "friends"
Oh okay.
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I'm good, I know what that xenogender stuff is.
Sorry, this is just all so confusing for me.
Okay
Have you told them? Have they actively given you that impression?
If they are, I'm sorry, and I hope it gets better and you can find some help soon.
I'm gonna say something contreversial though.
I wouldn't want my kid to be trans.
If they were, I'd try my best to support them, but I'd never want my kid to have to go through questioning their gender, and feeling horrible in their own body, and needing to medically transition later on if it's that serious. You have to realize that, if they're giving off a weird vibe, it might be because they are worried about you and don't want you to go through pain.
what is a dollgender 😭
the hell is desktopfluid?
Genuine question.
What is an oxigender, and what's genderfaunet?
How do I stop getting these announcements I left to get milk from this wiki a long time ago 😭😭😭
Nah, all good, just saying my opinion lol.
No, it gives me the ick either way. Something about using 😏 to describe any sensitive topic like...if it's a coping mechanism to joke abt it...then okay ig? But it's just kinda...no...yk?