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The image used in the handstimming flag is made by draw-some-emojis on Tumblr, and they requested it only be used for discord- /info/light-hearted
I like the cola candy and scales one because the colors and theme are more concise
I don’t know much of you, I think any contribution to any community is valuable and from what I know yours have been positive, if you stay you should stay for yourself,, if the community has a positive effect on you compared to a negative one without it, then you should stay or something like that idkwita-
Fem/masc/Neu? Ect, also what would you prefer it related to (something like plant, animal, weather, or anything ig)
Yes
/j (It depend on what you mean by risky, safe risky [is that a thing?] then sure, I’d say no if it thing risky risk tho that make sense?
^/^^ I agree. Though it’s ridiculous that it hasn’t been renamed yet./srs it !!/is/!! a triggering topic, it /can/ be a triggering word for many people, having it somewhere easily visible where anyone could stumble across it could cause negative consequences for that person. It make !!no!! sense that the name was not immediately addressed or addressed properly in those discussions- given that there are already strict rules to tw/cws in which someone’s post would be edited to properly tw/cw (without removing content) these things with or without the original posters permission and often not accounting for severity of the cw/tw (and I’m saying this with the fact that this Is a !!positive!! thing/gen!! And it’s something were if a post was missing a cw/tw and it /was/ brought up it !!would!! be addressed in a similar matter.)
[the gender is valid./gen genuine statement no ‘but’. Peoples experience are valid. Including those who !are! and /aren’t/ triggered by the word. And those who do or don’t choose to use this gender. But i don’t see how it’s different from the other tw/cws, even if some aren’t triggered by caps they still need to apply to the tw/cw rule,, which is why I don’t understand this. Unless I’m missing something, in which case tell me.]
Akc i keep being stuck in the cycle of : I’m feeling a gender and I know what it is but also I have no idea how to describe that in a way that makes sense to others and if I did it’d be weird/niche to coin (🌀)
!!!yes!!! Exactly!!! I feel like it needs to be addressed, possible renaming?
The references can be fixed- I’d add the ‘personalized’ part to the common definitions cited to when they were added to the page/by what user
be strict- say that you don’t return romantic feelings for them and that you only want a platonic relationship with them. Ask if the romantic feeling is something they (and you) are willing to get over and work on together and if they understand that those specific feelings make you uncomfortable but that your willing to work through it with mutual respect and compassion if they are too.
It’s not uncommon for romantic feelings to develop in a qpr and it’s definitely something that can be worked through without ending the relationship.
Know what their idea of ‘romantic’ is compared to yours, they may feel that a certain action feels romantic to them even if it doesn’t for you or vice versa.
This could be things like gift giving or saying ‘ily’ and by knowing this you’re both able to set boundaries on what is and isn’t appropriate. If for say hand-holding feels romantic to them, it doesn’t mean that you can never hold-hands again, it might just mean that it’s something to exchange for another display of affection or only do in situations where you are both comfortable. ‘ily’ could feel more romantic in a more intimate situation such as dates- and maybe there is a time when it is and isn’t appropriate to say so. This also applies to the reverse, it makes sense that certain things or situations might feel uncomfortable now, you can explain these feelings and why they feel uncomfortable-
it’s ok to not like the idea of them experiencing romantic attraction in the relationship and it’s ok to decide what things are ok and not ok, boundaries are not set for distance they are set for respect,, if your both willing, in short im saying communication and boundaries are so swag (Im hope this is helpful- sorry if it’s not :')/lh sorry for the long text !/gen!)
Theres some on pintrest/info
^no… not exactly what I was thinking- I was thinking for terms that are more like the xenogenders of gender- but the __ of nonhumanity (not gender related) and that include identities that are not just under the otherkin umbrella as I don’t think the definition includes that (there’s ton I can’t name off the top of my head that are their own labels, I feel like the nonhuman/alterhuman community is missing the part that the mogai community has becuase the terms that do exist need to be found by digging through droors labeled just ‘identity’ like the missing equivalent in which xenogenders have the structure of being able to find your ID in multiple labeled drawers like ‘-lexic/-kein/-luxine’ ect..’ that hold the subsets of these terms. of course these would be different than the xenogender example though- I feel like it’s a missing part, it might be one I don’t see though (I may have missed the train of thought)
[sorry if this is a lot of text, it’s been something I’ve wanted to discuss but I’m not sure if there’s a lot of nonhuman/Alterhumans on this wiki-]
Does anyone know if there’s a word for nonhuman/alterhuman ish identities and related non-gender terms? Kinda like xenogender and mogai, also if there’s a wiki for them? (I haven’t seen one i was thinking of coining one and I’m unsure if things like this are something that would go on the nonhuman/alterhuman wiki/genq/lh
This is all /lh btw sorry if it sounds ‘🤓👆’
To avoid confrontation though, I think it’d be best to make a blog post possibly titled, ‘toki pona system plans/future coins’ with what you plan to coin. it doesn’t have to be specific it could be:
Genders related to object/color/food ect, words in toki pona. (Whatever you actually plan to coin sooner or later) It’s unlikely you’ll be given credit for any ‘nimi ku’ related coins
The way you worded it is wrong, in actuality unless the term has a ‘coining post’ it wouldn’t be allowed on the wiki, referencing the term could sometimes be used to cite (for example if someone said ‘hey, I feel my gender is __ and __ I named it: __’ in a conversation rather than a post a screenshot could be used to cite it.
If you are planning to coin all the genders in the system, then it’s completely ok to say so. (However if you know that your not going to be able to coin ones for every word and you don’t plan on doing so then your not going to be credited for it if someone else coins it instead)
this would account for one gendersystem- the system you coined here, not for toki pona words related to memes or ones that would be coined like ‘a gender related to being [word] and feminine/[word] and [separate aspect]’ unless you specifically state those too.
^^A- I’m so sorry./gen/lh (I fixed it kinda:))
You need a cw and space for the bold text. I like this.