All posts by *Evren*28

Does ahnyone ave different ways I can bind without a binder?

I considered sports bras, but my mom told me that I can get really hot in those. The only place I can get anything is Amazon at the moment. I can't get trans tape because I'm not out yet. I thought of minimizer bras or compression bras, but I can't find any good ones that give me the result I want. The only thing I have right now is an old tank top I used for a play once. I can fold it to get my chest a bit smaller. But that's it! What things ywould ou recommend to make my chest smaller?

Ok. So, I feel very connected to masc and enby genders. However, there's an undeniable part of me that is connected to some femininity. I don't really feel fully fem nor do I feel fully masc. I feel like I hang out the enby genders and masc and fem are like the third wheel. Just tagging along because they can. I'm not sure if my gender fluctuates though. The best way to explain it is that it is enby's wedding. Masc is the best man. And fem is the party crasher that you only notice a few times. The family member no one invited but she came anyway. I know it probably sounds odd but that's the best way I can explain it. With that being said, what do you think? What labels make sense for this?

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So, I've been struggling with my gender recently. It has beening taking a toll on my mental health and I'm sick and tired of having a gender crisis every two weeks. I really need anyone to respond with any advice. Here's more details about my situation:

I feel happy being a demiboy. I want to be connected to masculine and non binary genders. However, I do experience an uneasy amount of femininity. I feel like it holds me back from being who I want. I can't escape my feminine side. It'll always be a part of me, but I hate it. I try to avoid it as much as possible but I feel like I can't escape it. I thought for a long time that I was gender fluid. However, I feel like my gender is MUCH too stagnant to be that. I want to only connect to masculinity and enby! But there are parts of me that can't be disconnected from femininity. With pronouns, I don't feel connected to specific ones. Them/he is preferred, but I am ok with she sometimes(although it's rare). However, I know I am not void or agender. Neither feel particularly right. I know I don't feel comfortable AT ALL with xenogenders either. I don't know who I am anymore. I wanna be a demiboy so bad but I feel like I don't qualify. I searched high and low for my gender but I find nothing. My gender is like an 18 decillion piece puzzle. I look inside my soul and all I find I a mess for a gender. I wanna know my gender.

I'd like to also take time to state that I am young. I'm not an adult yet. Still a minor. I know I have a long way to go and I have time to figure out my gender. I know maybe I'll settle for something now, but future me will find something better. I just want to settle for something now. So please reply. Whether you have advice, wanna share a similar experience, have ideas for genders, or even just to say you understand. I really need all the help I can get. I wanna know who I am.