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There actually is more than 2 genders! Even though there are only 2 sexes (male and female, or 3 if you count intersex).

So with gender, being a concept entirely separated from sex, you could say that there’s an infinite amount of genders. It is more about identity than anything else.

I meant like how there's plural they/them/themselves when talking about lots of people and singular they/them/themself when talking about 1 person. Is there more plural pronouns apart from they/them?

Hello! I'm Stellar, ix/they/she! Nice to meet you!

@Sigmabrainrot non-binary is an umbrella label with anything that isn't binary man or binary woman.

A cassgender person knows they have a gender (e.g., they KNOW they are non-binary, or KNOW they are genderlfuid, etc.) but it doesn't feel super important to them.

They feel that labels aren't necessary, or they don't care much about fitting into traditional gender categories.

Unlike someone who feels completely genderless, a cassgender person recognizes their gender, but it's not a big deal in their life.

So, in short, cassgender people acknowledge their gender but don't feel it defines them or needs a special label.

Cassgender = someone who knows they have a gender (for example, the person might know they are a woman, or know they are non-binary, etc.) but doesn't think it's important. They may feel a certain way about their gender, but they don't want to label it or make it a big deal. This is different from having no gender at all, because they still have a sense of what gender they are, but it just isn't a big part of their life.

Cassfluid = where a person's feelings about their gender can change over time. Sometimes they might not care much about their gender at all, and other times they might feel more connected to it and care about it.

The difference between these two terms comes down to how stable/non-fluid a person feels about their gender.

Is this better?

Question: looking at the 'Just Updated', why does everyone here make the prettiest flags? /lh /j /silly

What's the difference:

Cassgender = a way to describe someone who has a gender identity but doesn't think it's a big deal. They might have a sense of their gender, but they don't feel the need to label it or focus on it. It's different from not having a gender at all because they do have a sense of gender; it just doesn't matter much to them.

Cassfluid = a type of gender identity where a person's feelings about their gender can change over time. Sometimes they might not feel strongly about their gender at all, while at other times, they might feel a bit more connected to it.

The difference between a term and its fluid version depends on the stability of the person gender. If you are genderfluid, you might connection to the fluid version more.

I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It's completely okay to feel a bit overwhelmed and hurt when people don't understand or appreciate you. You are such a beautiful person, and you deserve to be seen and loved for exactly who you are—no one should ever make you feel less than that. It's really unfair that you have to struggle for the acceptance you truly deserve.

If you ever feel like too much is weighing on your heart, please talk to someone who cares—like a good friend, a loved one, or a helpful expert.

Your feelings are so important, and you are truly special. The world shines brighter with you here, just as you are! You absolutely deserve all the love and acceptance in the world. Always remember, you are worthy of happiness! And on tough days, just take it slow, one tiny step at a time. Please be gentle with yourself, and know that sunshine-filled days are just around the corner.

That's great! It's always nice to hear that you pass! Glad to hear your night was going so well :)

Agingender = Agingender refers to a spectrum of genders related to agenderness or genderlessness.

Agiaspec = The agiagender spectrum (agiaspec) is an umbrella term encompassing various identities related to agenderness and genderlessness, including those who identify as partly genderless or genderless-aligned.

Ningender = Ningender is an umbrella term for genders that are neutral or unaligned, including identities like neutrois and maverique, but distinct from non-binary genders that may be feminine or masculine aligned.

Niaspec = The niagender spectrum (niaspec) encompasses identities that are neutral, partly neutral, or resemble gender neutrality.

You could look around here: https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Category:Fluid_Genders

I like the lgbtqia wiki because its definitions are clearer and easier to read. You could look here: https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Idingender

Genderkylan: Similar to genderfae and/or genderselkie but agenrinie is amplified.

Genderflick: Similar to genderflor, but specifically encompasses genderless genders.

Genderflicket: Similar to genderfloret, but specifically encompasses genderless and feminine genders.

Genderflickette: Specifically encompasses genderless and feminine genders and can be binary woman.

Genderflicker: Similar to genderflorer, but specifically encompasses genderless and masculine genders.

Genderflickeur: Specifically encompasses genderless and masculine genders and can be binary man.

Genderflicke: Similar to genderflor, but specifically encompasses neutral, non-binary, and genderless genders.

Genderflickex: Similar to genderflor, but specifically encompasses xenic and genderless genders.

Genderflicken: Similar to genderfloren, but specifically encompasses neutral, feminine, masculine, and genderless genders.

1. Transfeminine, aliencatgender, and just FINgender + xenogender as a more ~general~ term if I don't want to explain anything. I'm transfeminine because I was born a male, but feel more feminine and more girly than what a boy should feel. I'm aliencatgender because I feel like my gender is foreign and whimsical, and I find comfort in the freedom that this label brings me.

2. I use a lot of pronouns; candy/sugar/lolli/fluff/chew/pop/mew/purr, are a few of them. But mainly I use ix/she/they. I generally use anything with a 'cute' vibe, candy, cats, things that give off the same vibe the color pastel pink. So it's whatever.

3. The best way I can explain it is that it feels like an internal sense of kawaii, pastel pink, sweet lolita, and nyan cat? Really, that's the best I can say about it.

4. It feels natural. Like, this *is* me, this *is* who I am.

5. I don't really experience gender dysphoria that I know of. I'm pretty confident in my gender and my body. So yeah…

6. Like I said, I'm very confident in my gender and body. I naturally look very feminine, so I guess that helps… I have longer hair and a squeaky voice, so people mistake me for a girl all the time, and when they do, it just makes me feel so happy. It makes me feel like there's still hope in the world and that not everything is bad and that I'm going to have a good day. I just feel on top of the world, and nothing can knock me down!

No, agenrine is a little different from genderfaun or genderfae. While agenrine is about feeling agender or genderless, genderfaun and genderfae are more about being between different identities, skipping away from strict masculine or feminine labels. Agenrine isn't really about flowing genders like genderfaun or genderfae is.

Stay safe Moth <3

That can be so tough! It's really important to chat with someone kind and caring, like a mental health professional, who can guide you through this and help you understand it all.

Always remember, you're never alone in this journey, and asking for help is a brave and wonderful step.

I'm here for you, too!