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Can I still use a xenogender if I use it more in terms of describing gender expression? Bc some xenogenders i use do correlate to my gender, others to gender expression (not necessarily outward expression, but how I feel it… does that make any sense??) and some I just have an unexplainable deep connection to…. Ik the first and last part is valid, but what about gender expression? I just feel a lot of imposter syndrome ig

So to identify as demiflux do you have to have a static demigender and a fluctuating part? Bc I thought the demi part was in reference to the fact that only part of your gender fluctuates. Can I be fully female and also have a fluctuating part of my gender and use Demiflux? Bc that’s what I’ve been using. But then I re read the definition so I could more easily describe it to other people, but now I’m confused…

I saved this flag but can’t remember what its called…

If I mostly identify with my AGAB but also am demiflux, surgirl, non binary, and xenogenders, ect. (I have A LOT of labels lol) am I still considered cis? Ik i don’t identify as trans, but would I still call myself cis, if i’m not fully identifying as my AGAB?

I couldn’t come up with a name for this one 😭😭 So if someone has any ideas plz lmk!! (Also I just edited the Stargazegender flag to add pink and an orange heart) It’s the same definition of Stargazegender but stargazing with someone you’re in love with/have feelings for. I use it in terms of romance but if you don’t experience romantic attraction but still feel a connection to this please feel free to use it!

Edit: @HelenDaMelon came up with the name stargazeamoric

Lesbisongic: this one is hard to describe but I will try my best… So basically it’s like Lesbiangender and Songvibic mixed together. Example: When listening to a pop song with more traditional feminine vibes I picture myself with a really femme woman and I feel super femme and girly. So it effects how I see myself (and potential partner) based off of both the vibe of the song and the vibe/expression of the person. I hope this makes sense. (This gender is exclusive to lesbians but if u feel similar I’d be happy to coin a version of this gender with your orientation!) oh and if someone could add the page it would be very appreciated! Thank you

Someone on r/xenoidentitiesbutcool coined the term porcupineic as well as the pronouns quill/quills/quillself, porcu/porcupi, and porcu/porcuself. They also made this flag:

Not sure what the username was, I don’t actually have a reddit account I just came across this and thought it was cool. Last I checked it was the newest post on the subreddit, so someone who understands reddit can find the user who coined it

Dawnic: One’s gender being related to dawn, being the only one awake during dawn, ect. Ik it’s kinda vague but as long as it relates to dawn you can use this.

Madhatteric: one’s gender being related to the Mad Hatter from Alice In Wonderland

Madhattercoric which is basically the same as Madhatteric but based off of a Mad Hatter aesthetic. I can’t really come up with a flag design I like for either so if someone could help me, that would be great! Also could someone make the pages?

I posted this on the Xenogender wiki but it seems pretty unactive so i’m gonna post this here.

So basically most of the xenogenders i use correlate directly to my gender but some I use bc whatever the thing that the xenogender relates to is something where i feel most comfortable or even euphoric in my body or I just feel an unexplainable deep connection to. I hope that makes sense… anyways I wondered if this was valid. Is there a different term for that?? Thank you!