Two years ago, on July 17, 2023, after a lot of overthinking, I made my very first post on this wiki. It was so long ago that I didn't even have a name (and I will never stop thinking it's hilarious that I decided to go by AC. I really thought that the best thing to do was call myself air conditioning.)

Fair warning, this post is going to be pretty long and rambly, but hopefully somewhat funny and nostalgic. (will my sense of humor make sense to anyone else? probably not!)

Fun fact you might already have known: this is not my first fandom account. My alt account (@/Just a random violist) was actually my first account, and it was made because I saw some pretty horrific vandalism here and wanted to report it. Of course, I couldn't do that, since my account had to be at least 3 days old to post. I didn't like the username and didn't realize I could change it, so I just made a new account.

Another (kinda) fun fact: I'm still using the same pfp that I was using when I first joined the wiki. (not currently, though - i'll change it back after disability pride month is over.) I've only deviated from that pfp three times - october 2024, december 2024, and june/july 2025

Some things that happened in those two years, both specifically for me and for the wiki in general (definitely not in chronological order):

• I got to know many of the wonderful beings who responded to my intro post (specific shoutouts in no particular order to Adrian, Aspen, and Aether (I think that's the name they're currently using?? they're most well-known here as @/JuniperTheChaoticLesbian)) (why am i a magnet for people with A names, my 4 closest irl friends' names all begin with A as well /ot)

• I also got to know many other wonderful beings who weren't there at that time (specific shoutouts in no particular order to Moth, Xen, Larkspur, Ash, Piper, Tasselflower, Colossal Vessels, Stellar, Shane, Rillow, and anyone I missed (i'm sorry i'm very forgetful))

• I've done 2409 edits and 3523 posts, averaging 3.341 edits per day and 4.886 posts per day (wow, I thought I was more chronically online than that)

• I've created exactly 400 pages, if I counted right

• I acquired a name

• I was adopted into the wiki family by Piper and @/Bi ve candy. I think I still have my adoption certificate somewhere on my phone

• The great staff upheaval of 2023 (made it through without being globally banned!!)

• I had my first edit reverted by Bo even though there was nothing wrong with it. Smh. /j /lh (proof)

• The reign of Bill Cipher

• I proved that I am not power-hungry (unlike certain administrators (Xen) and b-crats (Adrian) /j /silly) by taking over a year to apply for c-mod

• Off-topic threads and spotlight genders were introduced

• I ran spotlight genders, which was very fun (spreadsheets!!)

• The reign of cheese

• A certain wiki revolution that also involved cheese

• The departure of Bo :,)

• I've coined . . . a lot of genders. And made a lot of flags. And they all *definitely* have pages, because I am a responsible wiki editor.

• I learned how to archive references. It took an embarrassingly long time.

• I'm pretty sure that when I joined, the wiki had about 2000 pages. As of writing this, there are 7,692 pages.

• I finally joined the wiki discord server last week

• I made the medals list (instead of doing hw) bc I was just really sick of the gender wiki:medals page being impossible to read. And this was months before I even considered applying for staff lol

• I found my gender!! Can't believe I didn't mention this earlier

• Many, many beautiful themes (including cheese)

• Many, many rules changes. And debates over rules changes. And debates that became not-so-civil arguments that made posts have to be locked

• I changed from an always dark mode user to an always light mode user (unless dark mode just objectively looks better. which isn't often.)

So yeah. There's a lot that's happened over the past two years. Users have come and gone, and activity has ebbed and flowed. The wiki's grown a lot, and there are and have been a lot of great beings here, love yall /platonic

I have no idea how to end this, but I also can't think of anything else to say.

I know this post cannot compare with Xen's fandomversary post, but I tried.

-Theo, they/he

I tried looking on this wiki for Interbinary but it was deleted WAHHHJ. I found a gender that I'm comfortable with and I find out it's deleted

Can I still use a xenogender if I use it more in terms of describing gender expression? Bc some xenogenders i use do correlate to my gender, others to gender expression (not necessarily outward expression, but how I feel it… does that make any sense??) and some I just have an unexplainable deep connection to…. Ik the first and last part is valid, but what about gender expression? I just feel a lot of imposter syndrome ig

I saved this flag but can’t remember what its called…

For those who are both cisprox and transprox, regardless of whether you’re either, let alone both

Cisprox means you are connected to being cis and transprox means you are connected to being trans. These can apply to anyone who meets the definitions of the terms regardless of their gender modality. Also you can add -prox to terms like Cisfem/Cismasc, Transfem/Transmasc to be more specific on the way you are Cis- or Transprox

That's the mtm flag by the way. I'm happier now lol

he/him

Requested by @CryptidKid or ThatSillyTopHatPerson

So fae requested a gender related to Fluoress from MSM and a gender related to Bone Island from MSM so I introduce you to...

Fluoressgender is a -Charic identity where one's gender can only be explained by the character Fluoress from My Singing Monsters

Bonegender is a Gamegender identity where one's gender feels a strong connection to Bone Island from My Singing Monsters.

-Millie/Solar/Solarmillie/Via/Zee/Pixie/Blarrie (they/them/neos)

I've been making genders based off of my favorite My Singing Monsters characters. So I'd like to introduce you to...

Auglurgender!! A -Charic identity where one's gender can only be explained by the character Auglur from My Singing Monsters.

So lately I've been getting back into My Singing Monsters, as said in my last coining post, and my first ever favorite monster was Dandidoo, so I made a gender dedicated to Dandidoo!

Dandidoogender is a -Charic identity where one's gender can only be explained by the character Dandidoo from My Singing Monsters.

Dawnic: One’s gender being related to dawn, being the only one awake during dawn, ect. Ik it’s kinda vague but as long as it relates to dawn you can use this.

Madhatteric: one’s gender being related to the Mad Hatter from Alice In Wonderland

Madhattercoric which is basically the same as Madhatteric but based off of a Mad Hatter aesthetic. I can’t really come up with a flag design I like for either so if someone could help me, that would be great! Also could someone make the pages?

Exactly 1 year ago, I created my Fandom account in order to join the gender wiki (and then proceeded to not make an intro post for an entire extra month, but we don't talk about that). I honestly can't believe its already been a year, so let's recap all that I've done (most of these mentions are linked on my userpage, so feel free to check those out for more context :])

July 7th, 2024

When I first made my fandom account, my username wasn't actually Flautistfox - it was Xenwasqueer, because I wanted to make a play on words of "Xen was here." Quickly realizing that would instantly be interpreted as Queerphobia, I spent the next month debating my username (Flautist = flute player, fox = favorite animal).

August 5th, 2024

My first intro post! I was SUPER excited to meet everyone on the wiki after having lurked for multiple months. I thought Moth was the coolest person ever (my friends can account to my fanpersoning when Moth replied to my intro post), Aspen was super nice, Theo was a legend (/pos), and Adrian was terrifying. Looking back, I have no clue why I was so scared of Adrian (Sorry Adrian you're awesome now).

August 10th, 2024

I coined my first genders!! I was super nervous (social anxiety is rude), but Aspen was really helpful in showing me to the right places to learn how to properly coin genders (thanks Aspen!). I still hoard most of the genders I've coined today, so yippee :>

October 3rd, 2024

Cheese spy. I will not be elaborating./lh

December 12th, 2024

I applied for c-mod! At the time our only c-mod wasn't very active, and I joked for multiple days about becoming a mod before finally doing it. That day is honestly one I'll never forget; I was excited to join the staff team, and now the wiki is stuck with me for as long as I continue getting away with abusing my powers. I mean. um. being a good admin.

April 1st, 2025

Cheese. I waited months for this to happen. Best day of the wiki and I won't hear otherwise.

July 7th, 2025

At the time of this post, I've become admin (or higher) on three wikis, completed over 3,000 edits, staged multiple wiki revolutions, infected this entire place with a cheese addiction, and made so many friends that I have a lgballt wall in my room representing all the amazing people I've met.

This post barely breaks the surface of all the incredible things that I've been able to witness on this wiki, so you'll have to take my word for it (also, I've been writing for 30 minutes and my brain hurts).

I can't believe we've come this far. Here's to another year of being chronically online.

I find it hilarious that I don't actually like cheese in real life.

- Xen (They/Them)

I posted this on the Xenogender wiki but it seems pretty unactive so i’m gonna post this here.

So basically most of the xenogenders i use correlate directly to my gender but some I use bc whatever the thing that the xenogender relates to is something where i feel most comfortable or even euphoric in my body or I just feel an unexplainable deep connection to. I hope that makes sense… anyways I wondered if this was valid. Is there a different term for that?? Thank you! 

I don’t know what subcategory (general, etc) to put this in, so correct it if it’s wrong.

If I explain it & it’s already been coined, I’ll feel like a loser, so I won’t do that until someone says I can. Anyway,

(Images from Inanimate Insanity, I put all of them together)

Warning for:

• scars

• zombie/some stitches

• sfw/soft vore (mouth stuff, tummy stuff)

• possible bright colors ig-? (white bg, bright markers, some brief hot pink on bright blue bg)

Edit: oh righr I saw @.sweetest.nectar. here again hiii lmk if u wanna be pinged or naurh 💥🫶🫵✨💞

(^unfinished, just wanted to share doodle page so far lmao)

Comments appreciated 🫶 /lh /dontfeelforcedtocommentlol👍

I didn’t think I identified with xenogenders until I started researching them and i was like wait thats me and now I identify with like 20 lol

Also i made an alternate flag for Ranic:

I introduce a gender for one of my other favorite Warriors characters...

Blackstargender! Where one's gender has a strong connection to the character Blackstar from Warriors!

I don’t know how to comment on a page but I coined Programmegender! I deleted my old twitter a long time ago but if anyone wants to add credit my current twitter is @catalysmictism!! Sorry for making a post about this I’m kinda new to wiki LOL!!!!!

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Cisprox

Transprox

They are based on Girlprox/Boyprox