I have seen this in too much places. People love making diseases into for genders and its so wrong. I have seen cancer, hiv, autism, epilepsy, schizophrenia, and all turning into genders. my english is bad.
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Hi! i have a friend who is questioning between trans and genderfluid. Can't they be genderfluid and trans? i guess this could really help her!
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People describe gender as a feeling but, i just can’t grasp what that feeling is. I keep trying to find an emotion feeling that is like/similar to happiness, anger, sadness, but i just don’t know exactly what I am looking for and there is absolutely no straight answer I can get at all to what gender feels like. I don’t know how femininity is “supposed” to feel like, I don’t know how masculinity is “supposed” to feel like, and I don’t know how other is “supposed” to feel like. No i’m not agender necessarily (maybe). I’m comfortable with my sex, im comfortable with my pronouns given so I have no clue on why the fuck i’m trying to figure such a thing out. Maybe it’s seeing so much about it? My friends talking about their gender and what not? I don’t know and I don’t know why I am even trying
So, I'm not really sure what my gender is, I think I'm agingender or something like that? I was trying librafem, but it doesn't really fit so I'm just leaving myself at agingender for now.
Despite being agenderish though, I kinda want to try some androgynous sounding neopronouns, if that makes sense? Like ne/nim/nir kinda?
Any suggestions?
Definition of boybondgender: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more male/masculine the more they are attached to their gender.
Boybondgender flag:
Definition of girlbondgender: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more female/feminine the more they are attached to their gender.
Girlbondgender flag:
Enbybondgender definition: A person under the bondgender umbrella who feels more non-binary/gender neutral the more they are attached to their gender.
Enbybondgender flag:
I actually dont want to make an essay about this so...
My parents thinks that the concept of genders is stupid and they say the "only" genders are male and female. I really disagree with this statement just fyi. And dont retaliate at me for what my parents say.
I would like to coin the gender that I call bondgender! Basically, its definition is that bondgender individuals are people who's gender increases in intensity the more they are attached or connected to it. This gender identity is a spectrum of identities that fall under the bondgender umbrella, such as boybondgender, girlbondgender, and enbybondgender (these will get their own definitions and flags sometime soon).
This is the bondgender flag:
Gender thats fluid between all andro/nonbinary genders?
I feel like a boy but i like dressing fem? is this wrong? am i faking it? please help
Okay so, i have rlly thick hair and i want short (boy short obvi) fluffy hair . So can someone give me some pics for inspo ?
Either im one of a kind and no one else feels this way with gender, im absolutely insane and ill, or other people feel like this and i have no idea they exist.
Basically, my gender is. a strange thing. most people use the labels trans, nonbinary, demi, but none of these fit me.
The best way i can describe it is; my gender decides on who im with. romantic wise. if i get into a relationship, and they want me to identify as a fucking demi girl or something, you got it. if they want me to be a transboy, you got it sir.
But its not me pretending or faking just because they want that, its like? im all genders at once, depending on what somebody wants me to be? if they ask me to be that, then i will truly become that.
When im not in a relationship, its a little strange i suppose. i never know what to call myself because i dont feel like anything, yet nonbinary doesnt describe it. *dies*
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Idk if this belongs here, but my mother hates my voice and says it's too "deep" for her liking. I'm not saying I like it either, but she keeps asking me to make it higher, but to me that sounds too feminine.
Is there a way I can tell her that I don't want to make my voice higher without mentioning that I partly identify as male? Thanks
P.S. Anyone have tips on how to make your voice sound more gender-neutral?
Hello, I'm Zim/Saiko.
I use she/her and he/him, so i can't decide if i'm demigirl or bigender. Because 90% of the demigirls i see use she/her and they/them so...uh, yeah, help?
hi, my name is ren and i go by they/he + some neos. (despite my pfp im boyflux or something similar, and i dont feel comfortable identifying as lesbian due to being a boy sometimes, but it was my pfp on lgbta wiki and i dont want to change it ;-; i am asexual so thats still accurate) (and despite my username i do in fact have a gender. its boyflux or whatever, thats what im going with for now.) my gender fluctuates between nonbinary and masc genders. (yes ik there's a term for that but i cant remember what its called lol) anyways this wiki seems like a cool place so im staying here ig :D
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