Because what if someone asks for my gender . I don't have an exact answer. It's just a whole bunch of different ones

I know some of these aren't genders but there's still so many labels what am I meant to call my gender. All of these play into it. Do I just say "my gender is Machine" like hey I have like 6 other labels

Hello there!!

Can we help me with my friend? She is looking for her gender identity but afraid and too shy to asking it by herself, So I want to try to do this instead of her but accross her name!

Sooo

She is afab and in general feels comfort with fem gender, used to use she/her pronouns although doesn't mind about neutral or he/him (also she using it in her little comfort web-bubble) but says it doesn't mean that she feel herself as enby/agender or male/masc! Her style based on more neutral or a little masc vibe than femme, but slightly femme elegance is ok. She would like to be a little more neutral [androgynous] in her look and behaviour but not so much. Kind of between female and neutral like half-girl half-neutral and she says she feel herself like "I am kind of 60% fem, 30% neutral, 10% masc...maybe".

Welp, If I can ask like this — can you help me to help her? Which gender terms can be suit to her? She prefers to use queer person label now but not sure it's completely suits and reflect her...

I'm not good in terms although I'm lgbtqia+ member a long time so I'm not sure I can completely help her! I offered "gender nonconforming female", "queer" or maybe "queer female" or "demigirl" but she is not sure about it except queer\gener-nonconforming probably could be good variant ~~~

So ever since February I've been questioning my gender identity

Around middle of march i thought about trying touse different pronouns (She/her) to see which I'm more comfortable with

(Btw i was male at birth)

I found to be quite comfortable with them pronouns

Then early April i heard someone on the Msm wiki offtopic thread bring up the gender Demigirl

I looked it up and felt like i identified with it

Now I've not told anyone irl about this

I don't really have any irl friends

I'm already pretty nervous as is

So i was wondering if anyone has any advice they could give me on coming out

(Also thank you Littengmd for introducing me to this wiki)

So I’ve been questioning my gender for years and I’m still confused bout it. I currently identify as androgyne but it doesn’t totally fits.

My gender is kinda like this..I feel masculine, feminine (not male/female), neutral/null and genderless. Everyday is different, same days I’m fem, some masc, some neut, some genderless. Some days it could be a mixture of two or more of these, some times one is more intense then the other (like feeling 1/2+ but one or more feel more intense/stronger then the others). Sometimes it shifts multiple times a day but more often it doesn’t shift for days (sometimes months). Some days it’s all of em and others non of them, at those times I’m just kinda a thing? Not sure how to put it.

I guess I could be considered gender-fluid/flux/fluid-flux., at the same time tho it doesn’t resonate with me. (tho it probs should as I feel like I explained the literal definition of fluid-flux in my own way lol)

Any help and stuff is appreciated. Thanks so much.

Is there an almost gender? Like one where you are almost a gender. Not like mostly but you are almost past the line of adding a certain gender to your identity.

So... Basically, I came here because I've had mixed answers on this question.. I was AFAB, but I don't feel like a full woman, if that makes sense.. So, I did some research, and found that the identities 'Neoboy' 'Transgender/Trans-masc' and 'Censari' fit me nearly perfectly... but I don't know if I'd be able to use all the terms above, or if that would seem invalid..

Could someone please clear this up for me, or at least explain it better to me?

Okay so I've been really struggling to figure out my gender lately. I used to use the label genderfluid. And, I think to some level it fits because, while yes my gender fluctuates, it doesn't fluctuate that much. Also, I've been feeling like most (but not all) of the time I feel some form of connection to being agender, like not identifying with gender or having one. But when I feel like more agender I don't really resonate with any of my pronouns/any pronouns at all. SO I just really don't know what label I am or even my pronouns anymore. Please help!!!!!!!!

So I mostly feel agender and I kinda fluctuate between masc and femme or both, I've tried librafluid before but it still didn't feel right to me because I didn't feel like i was a percentage of whatever gender.

I'm mostly just asking this for confomation because the more i read into these things the more confused i get on gender as a whole and whether or not the two genders conflict.

Hello!

I've been reflecting a lot. I know my transition goals, and what pronouns I wanted, have my name changed, etc. I also use the label non-binary since it's a comfortable label for me.

However I've been struggling, since I mostly don't feel like anything and mostly if not completely whenever I look in the mirror I see someone who's nonbinary, someone who can be androgynous presenting, myself. I also internally used to not see myself as any inherent gender, but that isn't entirely right for me now, as I've discovered. Like I've said I mostly don't feel anything, or just not anything binary, but I also sometimes have moments where I feel partially but not completely male, despite, truthfully, not seeing myself as a demiboy. Or at least feeling detached from the idea. I also rarely want to be a demigirl, but I never feel partially a girl. Whenever I try identifying as it , it feels uncomfortable and forced. I see my brain as androgynous/non-binary, but nothing more. I have had, like changes in my gender identity whete I go from identifying as one thing to another, but nothing felt right or stuck. Except non-binary which does.

Any help?

Not that its an aversion to LGBT...+, but what if I just don't want to register as part of the community, because I'm not that Androgyneflux like not THAT much, but on occasion sure, well, Ive already explained my female gender envy before, and experimented with Pointwunner and Boy+, i think Androgyneflux is a nice little thing to point at where it can encapsulate my feelings enough. But forcibly having to be part of the LGBT...+ community for one silly title that barely matters to me and does nothing really for me overall when I don't really care to be a part of it because most of my family are non-promoters of LGBT...+ (but my aunt is a she/they/it and my cousin is they/them) so I don't want the potential to get dragged into anything when all I want to do is be like "sure, sometimes I feel a bit feminine (or gay i'd call it because that's how me and my family talk) but nah im a guy". Its not that I don't respect the community, its not that I am lgbtphobic, I just don't want to classify myself in that community because I feel like it doesn't fit me.

I think im being phobic here even though im trying my hardest not to, im sorry, im sorry.

(genuine, pondering)

I am very confused about what my gender is, for a while I've been calling myself a demigirl and recently, a genderfae demigirl. But I don't know if that feels right. I feel like a girl but today I don't know why but I feel very masculine. I don't know if I want to consider myself a man though or any masc gender. Maybe? I feel like I sometimes want to. But I notice I always correct people when they misgender me and I say "I'm a girl" or "I go by she/they" I only do that becuase I know I'm female but it just doesn't feel right. Right now I feel like I'm both male and female at the same time. And when I feel like a woman I hate feminine words like "girlfriend, wife, sister, Mrs," etc. I love the gender neutral terms, some masc and rarely fem. Though, I wish my AGAB was male but when it comes to gender identity, I don't know. I am also comfortable with he/him, they/them and she/her.

So, am I genderfluid, trans, cis female, bigender, or just confused? If anyone knows what I am or know any genders related to my experience, please let me know, thank you!! And please note I am autistic and have went through a phase thinking I was transgender since I was 13 to 16.

Btw sorry if this post isn't allowed

Soo ever-so-often, I have moments where I really wish I was a boy, and even get uncomfortable when reminded of my body. However, other times I like being a woman, and like expressing it.

I’m perfectly fine being called ANY pronouns, but go back and forth between feeling comfortable with my gender.

Just wondering if anyone can help me figure this out!! :[

A Transgender Agender Genderqueer Demigirl?

What does this combo produce?

How exactly coining a gender works? I remember someone made a post with the same question, but I don't remember the replies... (Sorry if it sounds dumb, but I'm just curious.)

Soooo I wanna be Male, and use He/Him pronouns, but lets say I wanna throw something on top, so like i'm 99.99% male, but 00.01% sumn else just for the funsies. Is that a thing.

And also how does the gender thing work. I think Xenogenders and Gender Identities are still based of of 0, 1, and 2+ (male, female, and non-binaries), right, so it influences you into one of those categories (I don't know please tell me if i'm wrong)? So, are there ones where you kinda just create a new gender like "I'm blobbomale and its its own thing apart from male, female, and everything else".

If those are a thing, I want my *pointwunner* (the 00.01%) to be one of those. I wanna be 99.99% male and pointwunner blobbomale because I think its neat (what kind of dork uses the word neat 😭)

If theyre not a thing, can I create them?

Suffix-sonic. A mic of "Song", "Suffix-ic", and together makes Sonic, related to soundwaves. I already used this with Timelessonic unintentionally, but I think it sounds interesting

Examples:

• Badapplesonic

• Rabbitholesonic

• Levitasonic

• Dontmineatnightsonic

• Fireworksonic

• Weezersonic

• Eminemsonic

• Throwitbacksonic

Thoughts

Hello, I haven't done my introduction yet but I've done some browsing on the wiki for a while now. My name is Ender, I go by she/her.

I don't know if there is a term for what I am. I've always seen myself as a woman while growing up and even now. Though I do remember being subconsciously worried that I would grow a beard and going through male puberty even though I knew it'd never happen.

But the thing is since I've reached my late teens, I've been thinking of getting a sex change. It's not even that I hate what I currently have, but I feel like I'd be more myself with male genitals. Honestly if there was a way to have both male and female genitals I would do it in a heart beat. I'm still comfortable being addressed as a woman and enjoy dressing as woman. And I hate to compare it to sexual content, but I think the closest thing I could relate it to is futanari.

So, uh, I guess that is how I feel?

So I was a little bit confused. What does it mean to be born a gender? And what does it mean it really feel that gender? How is that determined? Is that genetically based like genes in your brain that make you a gender? Also, does sex impact gender, like some people accept their sex as their gender instead of trying to let the brain decide, or is it the brain deciding it likes the biological sex?

Basically, if your sex in genetics is 50/50, does that make you wanting a be a gender also based on probability and not choice?

So on those sensgenders, it says that they were made “November 5, 2025.” It hasn’t been that day yet. Is it meant to be 2024 or 2015 maybe? Or is it meant to be made in the future? I have no idea and I am a little confused

1. What do you feel when people use your preferred pronouns (like, do you feel euphoric)?

2. Are there other pronouns that make you feel the same way but aren't your preferred pronouns?

3. What do you feel when people use pronouns you don't prefer?

4. Are there any pronouns you feel neutral about?

5. Do you feel differently for any pronouns if they are spoken verbally vs typed?

6. Are preferred pronouns only pronouns that make the person feel good or is it just what you want people to use?

7. If the answer to the last one is pronouns that make a person feel good, why is it called "preferred" pronouns and not something else?

8. Special question for cis people who use the expected pronouns for their gender, if any of y'all are on here; Does using those pronouns give you euphoria? do you feel things when people use them?

I'm just asking bc recently I have not been getting any "good" feelings from people using my pronouns, though I rarely hear them used verbally in person. So i can't tell if it would make me feel good if used verbally or not. Recently I've been feeling absolutely nothing towards most pronouns, and those I feel anything for are pronouns like she/her which make me a tad uncomfortable, mostly only if spoken verbally. I can't tell if my pronouns have just changes, and decided to fluid their way over to pronouns I haven't tested recently or smth, or whether they're just gone because pronounflux reasons, or they were used too much and I'm just fraypronominal or smth. Sometimes a couple of my pronouns feel more comfortable for a bit, but it's more like a "yeah sure" than something like euphoria.

Even so, I want people to use he/him, ey/em, or they/them to refer to me for the most part.

Is this how cis people feel about people using pronouns on them? kus I don't think they usually feel euphoria for their pronouns. at least, that's how it seems.

Sorry for the long post, especially when I'm not too common to find on here.

Have a great day!

• Rain (He/Ey/They, or any)