I want to come out to my parents ,mostly coz i want to start hormone therapy, but i have no clue how to. My parents are pretty supportive (my mother at least) so I'm not really worried about them not supporting me. I just feel super embarrassed about it coz I know it'll be awkward as fuck. I just dread the awkward questions and my dad's comments. And I don't even know how to do it like over text I guess??? But my parents will definitely make it a big deal and probably will make me announce it during a family meeting and shit :,). I just want to avoid that as best as possible. 👍👍👍👍
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So im fairly sure im agender but like I might be a transboy or something else.
Like I feel like i dont have a huge strong connection to any gender but being a woman/man feels so wrong but so right at once?? like it feels like I'm simotaniously every gender ever (Like pangender) and genderless (Like agender) but like I also kinda feel like I might be a GNC transboy???
I haven't talked to any of my friends about this. My gender has recently been confusing me. I'm AFAB but for the past years I've been calling myself a boy (but have always been kind of both feminine and masculine in gender expression) and all my friends have been too, using pronouns like he/him (I also use xe/xem.) But for some reason, out of nowhere, I feel like a girl too? Yet, I still feel comfortable identifying as a man, which is confusing for me. Sometimes I feel okay with the sex characteristics but other times I hate them. Whenever I research bigender or genderfluid labels I feel like they don't really appeal to me as much? If able to please help.
I’ve been struggling to find a label and was looking for help. Here’s some details about my past and present life that has lead me to questioning. When I was real young (2-5) I liked dresses but then stopped liking them around 5 and stopped wanting my outfits to be associated with feminism. I called myself a tomboy and engaged in activities that are normally done by males (nerf wars, hockey etc.) but also liked activities that are typically done been girls like drawing butterflies and I had a liking for necklaces and bracelets. When I hit puberty my chest immediately started to give me dysphoria and I begged my parents to get me hoodies and I now force myself to wear baggy hoodies in f90+ degrees… I dislike being called a girl but I’m sorta fine with she/her pronouns but prefer they/them. The main problem bothering me is I called myself a girl and never questioned it when I was younger. I attended a “girl power after school activity” but felt a lot of disconnect from the girls around me. I’ve just never questioned my gender till puberty. I also grew up not knowing any genders besides male and female so that my contribute to that.
Wow. I open my mouth and an essay falls out lmao.
So i've been questioning my gender for a while. I am AFAB and i sometimes feel as if i was a girl or just feminine in general, and sometimes i feel as if i were agender. I dont feel comfortable identifying as a guy fully, though i do not mind he/him pronouns (im aware pronouns do not = gender ofc) but sometimes i dont even care about my gender, so im just very confused, because im not sure if im genderflux, librafemme, genderdoe, or maybe even demigirl, any and all help is very much appreciated!! Sorry if this didnt make sense.
Is there a gender that is fluid between all genders except male and female?
My name is X/Void/Dt. Void. I am an alter of an osdd-1b system, fictive of Detective Void from SCP.
I have been having a lot of confusions about my gender recently.
Not only gender, but also pronouns! Just everything about myself is really confusing. I figured out I am Uranic but nothing else besides that.
For more info, our body is a female, and I have male genitals at the headspace.
I do feel really masculine at times, but I do not people to call me a "boy" or a "man". I also dont feel comfortable being called a "Girl" either. And it makes me feel just "no" when people put me under the non-binary category. All I know is I am masculine. There are times when I feel like a girl but that might be just the impact of our body gender. I do not have any more stuff to say about this but help would be appreciated!
Ok hi! i'm cosmic and i've never posted in a wiki before so i'm very sorry if i get anything wrong!
I am AFAB and go by they/he/she pronouns. i have always said i am a cis girl, however i feel really happy whenever anyone uses masculine terms for me. in some situations, i feel happy when people call me he, and in others i get happy when i'm called they. i'm not sure if i feel like a girl, i dont really know what gender is supposed to feel like- i think it's just a sort of 'you cant tell its there until something is wrong' type of thing???
Recently, i was talking about this with one of my friends and they suggested i could be genderfluid. what do any of you think? does this describe what it feels like to be genderfluid?
I've been going with pangender as my gender for now and I always seem to feel like all genders but the severity of each seems to fluctuate, so is there like a- Pangender Fluid or something. I don't fluctuate between genders It's just the severity fluctuates.. what's that called????
Hi, I'm just wondering if anyone knows of a gender which is genderfluid/flux between all gender except fingenders/fiaspec.
Though specifically stating that it includes:
Mingender, Exobinary genders (Agingender, Ningender, Aporagender) and Xenogenders.
Genderfaun or gendersatyr are technically right but they don't feel quite right as well as being a bit too unspecific.
The closest I've found is jupiaspec but it only has the gender groups as specs and it doesn't seem to include xenogenders.
I understand if there isn't one, I might just homebrew an identity or something idk. Jupifluid? Xenojupifluid? Thank for taking the time to read this though.
I can't accurately describe my gender, like I don't understand what gender is? Or maybe I don't understand who I am? I always adjust to someone and maybe it works with my gender too.
Just during a dialogue with a girl, I will feel 35% feminine and 65% masculine, but next to a guy it’s mostly masculine + androgynous? And when I'm alone with myself, I don't feel anything, maybe a little androgynous and genderless?
Man, I just don't understand myself and what I want from myself :(
I feel like all genders except male is there a label for that?
The few people who always reply to gender and pronoun questions! we all appreciate you so much.
Now, i need some advice for a friend
They're questioning whether they go by she/they/it or just they/it; and they're hesitant to change because their mom is incredibly homophobic
And they're worried that if they cement the idea of "i use they/it pronouns" in their head, they'll suddenly get constant gender dysphoria at home
I'm almost 100% sure that I'm Bigender (Genderfluid and Female), but I like being referred to as a Girl rather than as an Enby or Non-binary person. The same goes for bathrooms, I like using Female bathrooms rather that Non-binary bathrooms. Is that okay?
My name is Steve, I’ve been questioning my gender I’ve been genderqueer for a while I’m already out to my whole family but my gender feeling has changed I want to be male but I like to wear dressed, makeup, skirts, I like to dress fem but I like to be seen as male! if that make since- like I want to be seem as male, but i dont want to dress like masculine, can anyone help?
I've struggled with gender for a while, and while i DO identify with my birth gender, i tend to feel more like a being instead of the main focus being my gender. i've questioned being genderfluid and agender but i just feel so used to being referred to as female? help
Is it ok to identify as partially female, partially nonbinary, but then also go by all pronouns?
Also, what is it called? It's not going between the two, it always stays the same but it is jsut there
Is it demigirl or bigender or
So ive been identifying as bigender, but i also feel genderfluid. I was born female, but i plan to get bottom surgery and keep my top. Sometimes i feel masculine, but not enough to be transgender, because i still feel feminine. but sometimes i feel non binary, like i have no right gender, so i might be genderfluid. please dont give me any xeno, neo, or genders like that since i dont feel comfortable with those.
And since my gender keeps changing, i dont know my sexuality. I only like men, or masculine non binary people, just no female or feminine people, you feel me?? so im not like pansexual or bisexual, since i dont like female, but not male enough to be gay. i also dont feel good with being unlabled.
My pronouns are he/she/they but i dont like being called she ALOT, but i still like it. my favorite is mister, sir, or maam for formal pronouns. My parents are h0m*p0*bic so i plan to get bottom surgery after i am somewhere near 20 years.
Thx pls help :(
i feel very comfortable with the label genderfaunet. but sometimes i feel fully like a girl. what do i do? can i still identify as genderfaunet if i feel fully like a girl sometimes?